Spicing up my love life?

Question

Ideas needed

I see my man every weekend he stays with me Fri-Sun nights. Wew have been dating for about a year and a half. Our whole relationship has become very comfortable, which is great, but unfortunately so has our sex life.

I want something fun, but simple. I am a plus sized gal and he is a bigger guy so nothing that requires a lot of flexability. Our sex life consits of me on top or missionary, slight making out, and if we are really into it some oral beforehand......

I have a four poster bed and live by myself in an apartment. Any help would be appreciated. I want to surprise him with my newfound "love for our sex life" so HELP!

Answer 1

Experiment

Answer 2

My boyfriend and I were the same way and we are both bigger people too so I know that being flexible isn't really there :) But for my answer we changed our positions, like laying at the edge of the bed on your stomach and he can hold your legs while he "does" you from behind, try on your hands and knees. there are so many different positions to try. Also ask him what he wants and (within reason and your comfortablity) do it. Maybe fantasies or role play but I know asking my boyfriend made a world of difference. He suggested things I never would have thought of but I was still comfortable doing. Try surprising him with a quickie during the day or something of that nature. Hope this helps and all the luck to you. :)

Answer 3

Being full figured or plus sized is not a factor that is gonna really limit how you and your man can enjoy each other sexually. You said the norm for yall is missionary or riding...there are plenty of other positions and ways to use four play during sex to enhance the experience.
One thing that I would reccomend is either watching pornos with each other to point out new things you would like to experience, or if you're not shy...try going to a male exotic show/strip club. Unlike female strip clubs, the men performing are usually demonstrating different erotic ways to pleasure a women...I'm sure you will find some new things to try out there, that aren't back-breaking stunts...lol. I know I did.

Answer 4

I used to be a large size woman and when I was we didn't confine our sex life to the bedroom. We tried many positions such as bent over the couch or even the bed.It was awesome to try reading sexy articles to each other before we got into it. Maybe try some toys,lotions and possibly some movies but don't let your size stop you if it sounds good try it.

Answer 5

Funny

Answer 6

Do it on the floor, in the kitchen, in the shower! Change it up.


What may make it seem so routine is that you EXPECT to have sex. That might make it kind of boring. I also suggest breaking out of the routine, which may be what is making it seem "comfortable".

Answer 7

uget o top and ride him like a pony..who cares if your a plus size..plus size girls can get down and dirty too..whispers naughty things in his ears make him want you more then ever..light the room p with scented candles..take a shower together .goodluck.

Answer 8

it seems you are already expert in every aspects of sex. surprise him. prepare something simple but incredibly unforgetable. if he likes foods, prepare a food and while he is in bed, bring it to him, with matching favorite wine. lighted scented candles in your room, that will be perfect. do it with your sexy dress.

Answer 9

Try some scented candles, place them on your bedside table!

Answer 10

go to secretsinlace.com and have your lover wear
the rht stockings for you often