Ok ive been friends with the girl forever say 6 years but the whole time i wanted to be more than friends. we have hooked up a couple times but nothing serious. A year ago i came out to her tellin her i liked her all she said was i have to go and left. i really love her, recently i sat her down and talked to her. i told her i always wanted to be with her and i wish we could be more than friends she said that she has always liked me more than a friend but didnt want to ruin our friendship also that i mean everything to her and all this pretty much saying she felt the same. but a couple of weeks later she goes out with this guy that has been talking to her for awhile. i was crushed then in the next couple days we have another talk she said that she was sorry if she ruined everything and she wishes she could have me but she would hate to hurt either of us, i want her to be happy but she said she dont know if she is happy with him. she is still going out with him but i want her sooo bad.
2006-11-27 16:38:03 · 6 answers · asked by duratoid 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I would ask her if she is seriuos about him but let her know that she can not keep playing with your heart. Let her know that is exactly what she is doing and that you can make her happy and just to give you a chance. she already admitted that she has feelings for you so i just think that she is getting nervous about being with you and possibly ruining your excellent friendship. I would talk to her and let her know what it is doing to you. good luck!
2006-11-27 16:47:31 · answer #1 · answered by ihaveoceaneyes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you just have to wait and see how the cards play out sounds like you both feel the same but your friendship might be worth more then a relationship, to her cause we all know due to uncontrollable circumstances relationships don't always work regardless of how much u love each other..
2006-11-28 00:52:01 · answer #2 · answered by c_sev 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
move on bro she is telling you in a polite way she dosent want a relationship with you stay friend with her be there for her and maybe someday it will work out for you, but if you keep up with the stuff your doing you might lose the friendship aswell good luck
2006-11-28 14:14:53 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
here is what i have to say about this first of all are you really ready to go one step ahead what happens if you two were to break up could you still be friends i don,t think you though this right so if you want to lose your friendship then gop ahead
2006-11-28 00:46:47 · answer #4 · answered by dar 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I THINK YOU NEED TO MOVE ON. SHE WITH SOMEONE ELSE AND IT WOULD BE ONLY A PROBLEM WITH YOUR
FEELING AT THE END. IF SHE WANT TO BE MORE TO YOU
THEN SHE WOULD HAVE NOT GONE WITH SOMEONE ELSE
ESPECIALLY SINCE YOU HAVE TOLD HOW YOU FEEL. SO
TIME TO FIND SOMEONE THAT FEEL AS YOU DO. YOU AND
HER CAN STILL BE FRIENDS BUT TIME TO FIND YOUR
SOUL MATE SHE OUT THERE.
2006-11-28 00:46:18 · answer #5 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you'll get over it
2006-11-28 00:40:03 · answer #6 · answered by Traynor 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋