I met this great guy on yahoo personals and we kicked things off from the first date. We talk on the phone almost every day and get together as often as we can. We have been dating almost 3 weeks. I really like him but I see that he is still on the site on a daily basis. I get on the site too but I was going to cancel and just date him to see what happens but I do not know what to do since it seams that he is still dating or communication with other women. I feel like I am in some competition or that I am not good enough for him if he is still looking. What do you suggest I do to find out how he really feels without screwing things up?
2006-11-27 16:28:12 · 6 answers · asked by raerae 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Drop him from your friends list. He is not worth the energy. If he was into you... you would know it. No questions asked. Like Greg Behrendt says in his book "Don't Waste The Pretty". A man does not make excuses as to why he didn't call or say things like he's been so very busy he just hasn't had the chance. If he is thinking about you he will call you, he will take time out. You will be his priority because he is so into you. No one else is going to get his attention the way you do. You know he chats with other women. STOP WASTING THE PRETTY! Especially on a man you met via the internet. Who is chatting with other women about the same things he's chatting with you about. And since you have been out with him, maybe you should ask if you two are seeing one another solely or is he dating others. Be sure about where you stand. Don't be shy and certainly don't allow him to be coy with you. Then base your decision from his responses. Just think of yourself... first. Because he will think of himself first.
2006-11-27 16:44:19 · answer #1 · answered by Ice Princess 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
He is trying to see if the grass (new profiles/connections) on the Yahoo Personals is greener than what he MIGHT have with you. Do not cancel your subscription. Continue to check out the Personals. Do not sleep with this person. Sex does not guarantee anything! Stay friendly but keep searching. Keep dating other people too. . Good luck. P.S. Don't let anyone make you feel unworthy. The strong prey on the weak in this manner because they sense a lack of self love coming off you.
2006-11-28 00:35:46 · answer #2 · answered by YaYa 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
now not saying that he's not talking with others but do take things into consideration... you are only dating and there are no commitment strings that go along with dating really. And another... you only see that he is logging on... who knows, he might be getting responses from others and reading them, doesn't mean that he's responding. Also if you are do not trust him this soon into dating how will it ever work? Good luck
2006-11-28 00:47:25 · answer #3 · answered by rayne 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry about screwing things up with this guy - there's like a billion other guys out there that would probably love a date with you! It sounds like you're wasting your time with this guy who doesn't respect you. Give it a while with him to figure him out, but don't take too long before you find out that he may be not for you!
2006-11-28 00:32:10 · answer #4 · answered by sam 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
.......the only thing you can do to know for certain.....that is to ask him straight up if he is interested in an exclusive relationship with you. Men appreciate precise questions. If he is wanting an exclusive with you then bring up his Yahoo Personals status.....and yours.........and go from there. Hope this helps!
2006-11-28 00:47:16 · answer #5 · answered by Janet 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell him how you feel about this and maybe he will stop for you then just remember this is new to the both of you so take it slow or and have fun
2006-11-28 00:36:51 · answer #6 · answered by dar 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋