my boyfriend and I have known eachother for 9 years and been going out for 3 years. I had a boyfriend before him and he just broke my heart very badly. He made it so hard for me to trust any one. But me and my bf's relationship is going great. He is such a great lovable person. he treats me right, he makes sure i'm safe at all times plus we do fun things together. he is all i ever wanted in a man. i love him so much. i know you guys are probably saying that we have a perfect relationship but i just wanted hear what you guys think.
2006-11-27 15:55:53 · 13 answers · asked by ~*Godz_ANGEL*~ 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
nope you have no self respect.
plus your a prude!!!
2006-11-28 08:32:09 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
So dear if somebody hurt you so hard as you said:" It so hard to trust ANY ONE"!
Then, do not think of 'him', think of Yourself and seek professional treatment that may help you to understand that GOD did not created this great World that 'everyone' come and please US.
There are a lot of people out side that they hurt you before and they will hurt you in FUTURE.
Then, the correct defense is to lower your expectation, respect this guy that was able to accept you in last 9 years and move on and tell him how much you love him!
2006-11-28 00:04:26 · answer #2 · answered by Iranian Amigo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't have your mind set on thinking this is " the perfect relationship " nothing is perfect and thats cool, cause what you guys have sounds GREAT. If you think everything is perfect, soon some little flaws will show, and you might worry yourself to death thinking itll all fall apart
2006-11-27 23:58:10 · answer #3 · answered by Amy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do not be so insecure or immature. What does it matter what we think. You sound like you got the right guy so what you want to do here, rub it in the face of all of us poor lonely people out here still searching? Good luck to you and thank God and be a little more considerate in the future.
2006-11-27 23:59:16 · answer #4 · answered by CindyLu 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you got it bad. I think the fact that ya'll were friends first has helped you come to the realization that you do love him. I hope that he feels the same way about you. Do you see yourself with him in 50 years? If you do, you're hooked!
2006-11-28 00:07:21 · answer #5 · answered by JOELLEMICHELLE 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds real. If you feel that your current bf is making you the happiest you can be (and not just in comparative terms to your ex), then I think it is love because love, to me, is the ability for one person to generate insurmountable happiness in another individual selflessly.
2006-11-28 00:00:43 · answer #6 · answered by jaded1004 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sound's like a good relationship for you Two but just the same be careful
2006-11-27 23:58:58 · answer #7 · answered by csm 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honey keep him if your sure you are happy and hes happy and everything is going great . then u have want a women wants right amount of love right amount of caring u go girl
2006-11-28 00:03:03 · answer #8 · answered by wouldnt u l 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
mmmhmm well its easy to think all of that is good because you had your heart broken before him ...if you love him you would know but always stay postive and dont guard yourself from him too much...[loving someone is giving them the chance to hurt you but trusting them not to] remember that
2006-11-28 00:01:13 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you are in a great relasionship then you should be happy, why are you asking questions then?i think that you have a great relasionship with this guy but you are not madly in love with him. i think you still love the other guy. you are just fooling yourself.
2006-11-28 00:05:32 · answer #10 · answered by atahsina 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lucky u .. could i be more jelous !
I've been with so many guys and even my current bf is not impressing me that much ..
2006-11-28 00:01:01 · answer #11 · answered by Chloe 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋