I have a guy friend that I have feelings for. He has recently got back together with his ex. I am not the type of person to try and break up a relationship but I am having a really hard time concealing my feelings when I am around him and his girlfriend. Any suggestions?
2006-11-27 15:49:53 · 8 answers · asked by Michelle 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm sorry that you're having a rough time. I would try to avoid them as much as you can, so you don't have to hide your feelings often. When you are with them, try to be polite, but I know it's hard. you might want to vent in a diary after you see them or to a really trusted friend.
If you can, try to get involved with other hobbies and interests, and if you feel up to it, go out more often with other friends. I know from experience that this is hard, but you may meet more great people and really get into your other interests. I really hope things go well for you.
2006-11-27 15:55:16 · answer #1 · answered by cotopaximary 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just try to get over him, or mayb u shud let him know how you feel. Also, if he is happy with his GF then u shud be happy for him and not interfere in his life.
Just simple play ur role as a friend, be there for him..he might come to you later on..
Have faith
Good luck
2006-11-27 23:52:48 · answer #2 · answered by meee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i can understand your situation, and i can feel how hard it is, i just remember this poem
"it hurts to know the person you are in love with is happy with another person, but it hurts more to know that the person you are in love with is not happy with you, "
just a simple idea, try to see him as a good friend of yours, and treat him as a friend too, and by time you will find him as a good friend for you
2006-11-27 23:56:22 · answer #3 · answered by rick4u 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if you really want to keep the friendship, youll have to deal with it. for him..it wont be easy, it may even make you feel sick at times, but itll just have to be done....grin and bear it. if it helps, for a while just see him. stay away when hes hanging with his girlfriend.
or kiss him and tell him that you love him, you dont want your friendship to end, but you thought he should know. if he likes you back hell leave his girlfriend for you, and if not then at least youd know and you could move on with your life.....just dont kiss him infront of her....never a good idea.
2006-11-28 00:01:37 · answer #4 · answered by beb27 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just let them be together as unbearable as it may seem. Time will pass and he will either break up with her ( theres your chance ) or they'll stay together. If he means a lot to you I'm sure you want him happy.
2006-11-27 23:53:38 · answer #5 · answered by Amy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You had your time to say something and now that he has a girlfriend you want him even more. It's a typical female thing you guys do. See girls like guys that have girls because they want to know the mystery and the reason why this other girl has the guy. Now you want to know...
2006-11-27 23:53:01 · answer #6 · answered by devisional 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
how 'bout you stop hanging out with him and his girlfriend???
just get busy doing other stuff because it will help you get your mind off it, and you just might run into someone else who feeling you the same way...
2006-11-27 23:54:33 · answer #7 · answered by lodnem 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
for me the easiest way is to divert my attention somewhere or to someone else. like concentrating on other single people... before you know it. you might meet someone who you'll like even more.
2006-11-27 23:53:32 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋