How do i get over him?

Question

I don't think i will ever get over my ex now that i know he still cares. A part of me wants to get back with him but a part of me doesnt.

Answer 1

Take it a day at a time, you need to base this choice off of how you feel for him not just how he feels for you. You should talk to him about it and just be honest as you can be with all the things you are feeling. If he in fact still cares and loves you he will be understanding and willing to listen. Sometimes we chose to hold our true feelings down because of the wrong reasons, often letting what others think influence our choices. The part of you that wants to be back with him should be your heart and not your head. Listen to your heart and talk openly with him, take it a day at a time and the two of you will figure out if its something or not. Just remember it is about you and him so it should only be worked on by you and him. Just tell him, I am sure it would mean the world to him to know you feel something even if you do not know what you want to do about it if anything. If he truly loves you then he will be willing to wait while you make up your mind, but you should include him in as much as you can. Follow your heart and if he is still in there somewhere then be true to it. God bless!
-NmD!

Answer 2

Spending a good amount of time with a person is bound to rip you apart after a split. Spending that much time with a person will also make it more difficult to not ever care for that person again, even if they did you wrong. You need to ask yourself why now? Why does he come to you at this particular point in time to tell you he still cares? Have you met someone? Is your life heading up instead of down? Did he have a relationship that didn't pan out? Remember you broke up for a reason, what ever that reason is, are you willing to take the chance of losing him all over again? Use the wisdom you have gained and take a look at this. The part of you that is telling you "no" is probably steering you in the right direction. You know the saying, f**k me once shame on you, f**k me twice, shame on me.

Answer 3

I know it is very hard. Even after I moved away from mine and we have been broken up for almost a year now...I am still in love with him and miss him every day. My advice is try to find someone new to like, that will defiantly take your mind off him.

Answer 4

i know exactly how you feel ...talk to him about it tell him exactly what going on with you and tell him that your unsure of what to do...if you broke up with him tell what he can change to wn you back or if he broke up with you ask him why and if he admits to a mistake tell him you'll give him another chance if you really do still love him...but take it slow dont rush into a relationship...its hard i know i've been down this road too many times...in fact im on it now ....good luck hun

Answer 5

yeah that's how i was too, so i told him i would go back out with him after making him wait a whole year and stop drinking, now we want to get married and move in together... give it time hun

Answer 6

Just one thing if you want to go out with him go out with him. But if you don't just slap him over the face a say I do not like you anymore. But go with what your instincts say to you.

Answer 7

You are confused!!! Whether you want the relationship or not, it is not the main issue. You have to get yourself right first.

How to???... mail me.

Answer 8

IT WILL TAKE TIME.BUT YOU WILL GET OVER HIM IT NORMAL
TO STILL HAVE FEELING FOR SOMEONE THAT YOU WERE
WITH.BUT IT WILL GET MUCH EASIER AS TIME GO BY. JUST
START TAKE IT ONE DAY AT AT TIME. IT WILL GET MUCH
BETTER FOR YOU DOWN THE ROAD.