okay, my bf left me for this another pretty gal coz i widnt have sex with him, we were going out for 9 months ( actually he was cheating on me from the 8th month) neways , i love him A LOT, really i love that with all heart but he doesnt... i just cant get over th fact that he just simple left me, i mean he used to say that he loves me, HE CRIED FOR ME , he did so many things... but he also called me a whore n a ***** later..
well..i love him a LOT.. do u think he'll come to me when he realizes his mistake
btw the gal he is going out with is 29 n he is 21
soooo plz tell me DOES TRUE LOVE ALWAYS WIN OR NOT???????/
shud i wait or nottt??
please guys, help me
2006-11-27 15:41:29 · 13 answers · asked by meee 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I really think that you should move on sweetheart, he's really not for you. You can do so much better than him. I have been with my girl for 22 years now so I should know, that true ove really does exist, and there is someone who is waiting for you. There is an old saying round where I live it goes, WHAT'S MEANT FOR YOU WONT PASS BY YOU, and that's the truth. My beauty was with someone else in the beginning and he dumped her, for a one night stand. We fell in love and I have always loved her, and I always will. All the best sweetheart and don't waste another moment on him, he really isn't worth it, You deserve much better
2006-11-27 15:50:03 · answer #1 · answered by Wikidkid 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are going to realize pretty soon (within the next year) that you are way too good for that loser. Someone that loves you will not hurt you. I know this is not what you want to hear, but your maturity in being able to be faithful makes you alot further along than he is. Just look forward to meeting a much better guy. This time it will be a man. Sounds like you were dating a boy.
2006-11-27 15:45:59 · answer #2 · answered by Straight but not narrow 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he was only with you for sex then he didn't love you .... he was in love with the thought of having sex with you (there's probably a lot of us out here thinking the same :) ) but as soon as someone came along who would spread their legs for him he was off
Forget him .... you don't want to be with a loser no matter how much you think you love him .... wait until you find someone who loves you for who you are ... not what they may or may not get from you
Keep the faith :)
Good Luck
2006-11-27 15:46:27 · answer #3 · answered by deadkelly_1 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
for sure there is actual love. there are diverse divorces because both human beings are being abused and they get out (as they ought to), or human beings provide up. diverse human beings are so delusional at the same time as it contains relationships...saying "it would not be this tricky if it replaced into meant to be..." no longer actual!! something worth having can no longer come to you easily. that's the things you paintings for that truly skill the most. And "appealing, good searching" human beings are diverse for anybody. i imagine my husband is gorgeous, yet that would not advise anybody does. that's only a count number of looking someone that you may have conversations with about something and each thing. because at the same time as the appearance have diminished, and the animal instinct is lengthy gone, all you've is sweet communique. that's why human beings continually say to marry your proper pal. :) Take care.
2016-10-16 10:48:51 · answer #4 · answered by pipe 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
true love takes both parties. you may truely love him, but you are just wasting your time waiting for him, especially if he left you cuz you didnt want to have sex with him, and then call you a whore. you dont need that bullshit. if he doesnt truely love you, then it will never work. you can do so much better, so you should forget him and go find the guy who will truely love you back.
2006-11-27 15:51:30 · answer #5 · answered by gremlin1422 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What you have is not love. Love is something that makes your life better. Don't get caught up in the emotional stuff he is throwing around. If he truly loved you then it wouldn't be about sex or this other girl. Oh yeah, he will be back when he gets tired of getting it from her. You deserve better.
2006-11-27 15:46:22 · answer #6 · answered by badBrad97 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's left you. obviously he doesnt love you. stop waiting for him and find somebody else. he cheated on you, allright you wouldnt have sex with him he had to get it somewhere else but its your right not to have sex but he should have been a man and broke up with you before he cheated. if men don't get sex unless its a commited and celibate relationship they will move on. it's time for you to do the same. as for true love i can't answer that, maybe you'll find it.
2006-11-27 20:59:31 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What a great actor!
He really made you believe that he loved you.
[Notice how quickly that vanished...]
It's great that you've seen his true colours now rather than later.
You think you love him (probably a lot based on what he said and did to convince you he did you).
You sound like you're still quite young and will later look back on this and thank your lucky stars he moved to her when he did.
2006-11-27 15:49:18 · answer #8 · answered by jinz 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl, he's not worth it. Any man who will leave you, calling you names like those, merely because you aren't ready to have sex with him, is not a man you want to keep around. Trust me. You may love him, but he doesn't love you. I hope you can get over it, and I think you will. Please--forget about him.
2006-11-27 15:47:20 · answer #9 · answered by Anna L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if he left you because of the no sex thing you don't need him anyway. Not in his case true love won't happen to him, he'll get what he dished out.
2006-11-27 15:48:55 · answer #10 · answered by colvin0594 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋