ive been w/a girl for a few months now and she hardly ever is the one to stick her hand down my pants. even when im on top of her clothed, we never really get down to business unless i take her pants off, whats going on?
2006-11-27 15:40:47 · 22 answers · asked by gandg 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Self conscious, shy, scared,doesn't know. Could be a number of things. Talk to her about it.
2006-11-27 15:44:07 · answer #1 · answered by Wonderer 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
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2016-05-23 16:24:05 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's either not confident in her skills. Or she's not enjoying herself. Ask her what you can do to make things better for her. There's no shame in asking, she'll probably think you considerate for doing so.
The other possibility is that she was brought up to think sex was a nasty, dirty practice in which case she will never enjoy it. If that's the case, I'd start looking for a new girlfriend. Sex is a part of a romantic relationship, and while its not the ONLY part, it is a part that will be noticed if it is missing.
2006-11-27 15:43:22 · answer #3 · answered by Takfam 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well for some reason women have been taught that only sluts initiate sex. So many women are afraid the guy might think she is a slease. If it goes good after you initiate it I wouldn't worry. Talk to her, tell her it makes you feel like she really cares about you when she makes the first move.
2006-11-27 15:43:36 · answer #4 · answered by 2010 2 · 3⤊ 1⤋
She's shy. She's afraid that she will do something wrong. She is insecure about having sex. Chances are, she's not even orgasming. She's probably so concerned with other stuff that she just can't. I had the same problem for a while. But then I loosened up.
2006-11-27 15:42:58 · answer #5 · answered by Dr. Dana 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Act like you dont want her. Make her think she cant have you and she will want you. i did the same thing because my boyfriend always wanted sex its a turn off to girls for there man to always want sex. Give her some space and act like its not a big deal. I promise she will initiate sex...
2006-11-27 15:51:59 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she comes from a conservative family and is programmed to think that "good girls" don't initiate sex.
2006-11-27 15:47:23 · answer #7 · answered by LL66 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its nothin wrong..maybe she does not feel the importance of having sex before marriage..you the guy so its better if you talk to her as there is no harm in talking
2006-11-27 15:49:14 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe she hasn't gotten comfortable with you yet, you've only known her for a few months. give it some time for her to open up 100% to you
2006-11-27 15:44:18 · answer #9 · answered by exclusive 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Lol...I have the opposite problem with my boyfriend. I'm always the one tearing his pants off.
2006-11-27 15:43:09 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋