okay, my bf left me for this another pretty gal coz i widnt have sex with him, we were going out for 9 months ( actually he was cheating on me from the 8th month) neways , i love him A LOT, really i love that with all heart but he doesnt... i just cant get over th fact that he just simple left me, i mean he used to say that he loves me, HE CRIED FOR ME , he did so many things... but he also called me a ***** n a ***** later..
well..i love him a LOT.. do u think he'll come to me when he realizes his mistake
btw the gal he is going out with is 29 n he is 21
soooo plz tell me DOES TRUE LOVE ALWAYS WIN OR NOT???????/
shud i wait or nottt??
please guys, help me
2006-11-27 15:40:03 · 19 answers · asked by meee 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
hi there, if he left you for the reason that your not having sex with him , than it was a one sided love that you loved him , he needs only your body not you, The true love means which is connected to the two souls that's what i call true love , if somebody Love's you only for having sex with you that doesn't mean of love, you forget him start your new life with someone who love's you..you are really a good girl, thank god that you didn't have sex with him, i guarantee you if that would happened he than also left you....... he is one dammmmmmmm SOB......
2006-11-27 17:30:14 · answer #1 · answered by eddy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ofcourse there exists a wonderful feeling called true love in this world... and it is not got by everyone... if ur bf had left u 4 someone else then never wait 4 him... let him go....it wud b very tough to forget him but if he had left u means that either he was just passing his time wid u or was playing with ur heart....or he is so selfish that he went wid that other gal 4 enjoying sex as u were not ready....it means that he is not at all interested in u or any other gal but is just interested in sex relations....well then also if he realizes that he has done anything wrong and returns back to u wid the intention of marrying wid u and spending his whole life wid u then its very good and i suppose u shud give him chance....but till he comes back u shud not always think of him n b upset but shud try to forget him....gud luck...................................
2006-11-27 20:22:27 · answer #2 · answered by Ria 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sooner or Later, everybody realizes their mistake, however, they would accept it honestly and feel sorry depends on the courage and sincerity towards themselves and their loved one.
Nobody cries unnecessarily means your bf in this case, be your own self, stand your ground and remember True Love never fails, the onus of sucess lies on determination and commitment of people involved.
Be happy and grow with your life, there's a lot to be happy about, I am sure, he will be back when he realizes his mistake. I don't see any reason why you shouldn't be happy.
Make friends and go out, there's a big big world to see.
2006-11-27 16:02:22 · answer #3 · answered by Sunlight 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
From what I have examine, what you 2 have isn't actual love. If he quite loved you, he would not want to have something to do with different females. I were fortuitously married for 6 years now and particular, there have been circumstances at the same time as a lady has come on to me or flirted in that way that i comprehend if I were to pursue something, i ought to get into their pants. notwithstanding the rationalization i do not do it really is because i quite love my spouse and understand her too a lot to damage her in that way. so a strategies as calling you names? it really is a lack of understand he has for you and if it were actual love, he would not be accessible with somebody else. Be actual to your self first and at the same time as i comprehend it hurts you immediately that he's doing that, please comprehend that you're on excellent of problems with your life and could finally locate someone deserving of your love.
2016-10-16 10:48:48 · answer #4 · answered by pipe 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Term truthfulness in love is replaced by lust and that was the ambition of your lost lover. However, you fought for true love and your lover disappeared from it. A good teaching for you to learn the meaning of love and lust.Truth never dies so you should not loose your heart. Dont take your win as a defeat.
2006-11-27 18:17:49 · answer #5 · answered by thinkpose 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
please don't ruin your life like this. maybe you love him A LOT, but he definitely DOES NOT love you, he only wanted to have sex with somebody and nothing more. THIS IS NOT TRUE LOVE, because true love is mutual and shared. anyone can say nice words but they are just words. it is not his mistake, it is yours who believed he loves you. at this moment you think you are right and every little thing he did for you looks like the cutest proof of love, but the ultimate test of love is trust and honesty. and he failed this test. later on you'll see that i'm right, he's not the guy you need. think about this: if he cheated on you now, what is going to happen later on if he comes back to you and you accept him? if he did it once, he will always do it!!
it's hard to do it, but you have to resist everything and forget him completely. it's going to take some time, but try to do anything you can to get him out of your life forever. otherwise you'll spend years suffering for a guy who doesn't give a damn on your feelings-BASTARD!!
REMEMBER YOU DESERVE SOMETHING MUCH BETTER!!!
2006-11-27 16:01:19 · answer #6 · answered by monica06 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What is true love ?
Augustine of Hippone completing a definition initiated by Aristotle (1) defined three types of love and these keys are interesting to transpose in our history :
- Loving to be loved (Amare - Amari) :
A narcistic feeling necessary to believe in myself, the minimum necessary to start believing in other...
- Loving to love (Amare - Amare, in Greek philien) :
Joy to share, friendship, force which makes us closer to the other, gives us value, allows us to exist in society
- Love (Amare, in Greek agapan) :
Loving-gift, the one who does not look after its interest as writes Paul in its letter to Corinthians (see below).
A text to think about :
The text below has a sense at numerous levels. It shows love with a great L but also talks of friendship and on a peculiar way of sexual love...
4 Love is patient,
is full of goodness ;
love is no envy,
has no pride,
5 Love is honest,
does not look for its interest,
does not irritate,
does not think of badness,
6 it does not have joy in injustice,
but of truth,
7 it excuses all,
believes all,
hopes all,
support all.
8 Love will never end
2006-11-29 02:17:36 · answer #7 · answered by Krishna 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Before loving a person you must justify weather his love is true love or not. You may be true but not your partner. If your partner asked you to do sex before marrage his love is not true. The one who love you cares you and like to do sex after marrage.
I suggest you to leave the person you loved before and see another who loves you truly because the person you loved previously intended only to sex as he was going with another girl of 29. I wish you all the best in your future-----sagar.
2006-11-27 21:29:34 · answer #8 · answered by vidya sagar 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dear...u r in a false notion that u still love him...u liked his personality
but ur conscience dint allow u to commit...
u r traditional and have ur own ethics ...
which lack in him..
he wanted sex...found another woman...
u might feel bad for what ever happened with u..
u might not forget him...after all u r a girl...
but truly true love exists ...and u'll soon find it in ur life...
do not wait for this guy to cm back...even if he cms its bcoz he's selfish...do not trust him...
do u know that u can find true love in ur mom..dad...and ur bros & sis tooo
dear good one do not waste ur time thinking all these trivial things u've born for a good cause...fullfill it...go ahead in ur life and achieve ur goals..
2006-11-27 16:55:16 · answer #9 · answered by Mrin 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you dont wait for him life or love is not wait for you or anyone.dont think abt him think like he came to u r life for short time & this short time u get love .....
back is bck ,gone is gone think abt today.rat agi bat gai
god will help out from this situtation ?
pray for him that he will not do such thing in his life in his feature
mail me if u have take any further explanatio if u think so
kirti_praspooja@yahoo.co.in
thanks hope best for ur love
om sai
2006-11-27 17:44:31 · answer #10 · answered by kirti_praspooja 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋