My sister is controling my Parents?

Question

I am away studing abroad for college till around Christmas. When I went home for thanksgiving my entire familys dynamics have changed. One reason for this is that my brother and I both live hours away from my parents, while my sister is still local. She just broke up with her boyfriend so everyone is very accomodating.
However, she has gotten out of control.

On the ride home from the airport, my sister was yelling and scolding my our mother because of how she drives. My sister yells at my dad because of he doesnt want to give her money. She yells at me and my brother because we are loud during her television show.

I feel that she has taken this too far. She has become a tyrant in my parents house. I feel less respect towards my parents because they let her act this way. I have lost respect for my sister because she is rude, snobby and selfish. Is there anyway to save Christmas?

Answer 1

tell ur partens ur feeling on this and then have ur sister to sit down with u and u ur partens and stringhen her out

Answer 2

Yeah, send your sister to Mexico or someplace far away, one way! Not really, just thought I'd get your attention. Your sister is probably dealing with a lot of stress being the only child left at home and your parents probably put up with it because they aren't ready for their last child to leave (and it probably won't be long until she does). Your parents have allowed this to happen and they are the only ones that can change it. You could try having a talk with her but I doubt it will do any good. I wish I could tell you how to save Christmas but I can't. I would however if I were you video tape the entire time your home and show it to her and what a spoiled, selfish child she is. It won't do much good now but it will give her something to think about as she matures.You can tell her the next time she yells at you that you are not your parents and do not appreciate it and whatever she is yelling for you to stop doing DON'T STOP, continue doing what you were, don't back down from her and give her the upper hand. You'll just be "feeding" her.

Answer 3

Record her without her knowing. Then play it for her at a calmer time. Well before Christmas. Talk to her and ask her if she could live with herself knowing how she sounds. Your sister needs to be stopped, but in a loving way. No one has stopped her and I think she is asking in a very dangerous way for someone to do it. You have to be the bigger person all the way around and do the job you know you can do. I would say to her that you want to have a nice Christmas and you would really love it if she helped you achieve that for the whole family.

Please don't be mad at your parents. They are older and are probably thinking that she is the one that is going to take care of them. Another thing is they don't have the energy to fight her...maybe? Try to understand their dilemma.

I know what it is like to have a miserable Christmas due to someone else's selfish behavior. It's not pretty. Stay calm and good luck ...God bless...it wouldn't hurt to pray about it either, just ask for guidance, he will help you.

Answer 4

Save the family and do you all a favor. Your sister is being a miserable witch because she is miserable and wants everyone to be miserable too. She broke up with her boyfriend and now she is taking it out on everyone.

Go borrow a backbone and tell that bitter witch off. Call her on her actions and tell her to her face that no one else is responsible for her happiness and if she wants to take it out on someone she should go put some sugar in her boyfriends gas tank or something and stop making everyone around her suffer. Tell her off and mabe it will be her wake up call. your parents feel sorry for her so that is enough tell the witch off.

Answer 5

Wow! That's a shame. Try talking to your parents. I doubt if this will help though. Maybe if you tell your parents you will not expose yourself to all that unpleasantness at Christmas they might do something. Talk to your sister and tell her she's ruining everything, including her own life. Good luck.

Answer 6

i do not recognize the position you're from yet perchance you may want to change into emancipated from them.(i.e. divorce them) i do not recognize the regulations the position you stay. in case you may have someone close to to you, perchance of criminal age that would truly help you record the sequence of activities on your existence which include the abuse. bypass to baby amenities or relations welfare and they ought to open up a case in this. in the journey that your mom and father have considered that you're intense about the way they deal with you, issues might want to ease up somewhat. it truly is many times genuine in the journey that they recognize someone is gazing and would do unplanned visits. Your mom and father have alienated a invaluable present: you and your sister. do not supply up, you'd be criminal age quickly. it will be difficult yet perchance through beginning this procedure now you'd be on the line to restoration quicker. sturdy success.

Answer 7

I think that you should forget about your sister and move in with your girlfriend. From what i hear she is the best girlfriend in the world and you would be stupid not to move in with her. Your sister seems like she needs alot of attention. No one wants to put up with her but your parents have to because its their daughter.

p.s. i talked to your girlfriend and she says she loves you!!!

Answer 8

How old is she? She acts very immature. Tell her to grow up and get over it! No reason in disrespecting family because of her strife, that is a no no!

Answer 9

Invite more relatives to Christmas. She won't act rude infront of them.

Answer 10

inform social sevices of this situation.