i a m 18 my guy 30 he is busy and the reason for that is because
his uncel has cancer
his mom is sick
he's got work
and i never get to see him what should i do???
plz be serious
2006-11-27 15:31:37 · 16 answers · asked by Hally berry 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Be patient. The realities of the age difference and the resposibilities are that he will tend to have more things to do than someone at 18. You can talk to him about it, but consider telling him how much you appreciate his taking care of such important things and that you look forward to being able to spend more time with him. This will put him more at ease. Ask him if you can help!
2006-11-27 15:33:25 · answer #1 · answered by gare 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sad but that is the life of a 30 year old. Have you thought about dating someone younger? Ok, if that is out of the question. Then go back to dating him again. Set up a date, if he breaks it, be pissed like you would if you were only dating a week or so. The fact that you are in a relationship is not an excuse to get lazy. IF he truely has NO time for you, maybe you should take a break until he can find time.
2006-11-27 23:36:58 · answer #2 · answered by badBrad97 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not totally sure of your situation, but you are still a child and he is not. He has problems that you don't have yet that require his attention. At 18, you probably have way more time to devote than he does to being boyfriend/girlfriend. He is also at the age where his older relatives do start getting sick and dying, HOWEVER! He is also probably using them as excuses to not spend more time with you.
Men are cowards. My guess is he's hiding from you and hoping you'll break up with him because he doesn't want to be the bad guy.
2006-11-27 23:39:30 · answer #3 · answered by matt123169 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You may not like my answer, but here I go! Your 18 for Godsakes get out into the world and live a little an older my only want ayounger women to see if he still got his mojo going on. Date, Date, flirt have a ball in your youth. Without the drugs and acholol of course. But enjoy your youth go to school, have summer love affairs. Let this man go, he will be fine without your young needy self.
2006-11-27 23:37:46 · answer #4 · answered by butterfly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Best thing is to wait...and dont push too much! because if u push him ..u might loose him forever. So just keep in contact. And his mom is gonna get well sometime....and he will be able to see u in weekends n stuff...as far as his uncle is concerned...there's nothing much to say ..poor guy..u can sometimes go to visit his uncle with him...just as a caring girl. That will give u a good place in his Heart. Cheers n good luck!
2006-11-27 23:37:25 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems like he has a lot going on with his family. He needs a support system and you should definetly be his number 1. Maybe assuring him that he is not alone, that you are there for him will open up the door.
2006-11-27 23:36:18 · answer #6 · answered by crissa0512 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
spend your time taking care of the sick uncle and mom at either the hospital or house - then there is much chance that you will be able to get to see your man.
2006-11-27 23:34:56 · answer #7 · answered by Kethya Chin 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That means he is married with 4 kids You can't have that many excuses... wake up sweetie!! you are too young to be worried about him anyway.
2006-11-27 23:37:04 · answer #8 · answered by Kristen C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's too old for you in the first place and in the second place he has too many excuses. Find someone else.
2006-11-27 23:34:18 · answer #9 · answered by notyou311 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
A closed mouth won't get feed, so tell him how you feel, and if he cares about you, then he'll understand, and things should get better.
2006-11-27 23:37:15 · answer #10 · answered by Jerome E 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋