how do u make-out with someone? PLEASE!!?

Question

What do you do? do you just ask them, hey u wanna make out? does it just happen, what do guys like u to do, is there a difference between making out & frenching? help!!!!! im sooooo confused! this guy who im going out with is really hott and popular & has had ALOT of girlfriends(most of them sluts) but most likely has made out at lease 5 times, so i dont wanna be bad!! pplleeaassee hheellpp!!

Answer 1

I'll try to answer your questions... consider what I say afterwards too please.
Don't ask... it's so business like and not very affectionate. If he was a gentleman he would ask you "may I give you a kiss good night?" at the end of your 'date', but I realize that won't happen these days.
Usually making out just happens when you hold hands and talk very sweetly to each other like what you like about the other person or other nice things.
Guys like to do what ever they are allowed to do... mostly they aren't too picky. Good guys want their lady to be comfortable and feel nice and lead the way with kissing.
Frenching is basically touching tongues while kissing you don't have to do that, it'll still be making out. (I was so grossed out the first time a boyfriend french kissed me... I later realized I didn't like it because I didn't like him as a boyfriend)
If this guy is so "...hott and popular..." and had mostly slutty girlfriends you should think of the possibility of 'mono' being around...(check it out..Mononucleosis http://familydoctor.org/077.xml)
Get to know this guy better... not just his looks and reputation. What's your motivation? To be another number to him... #6? If you make out with him and potentially it dissatisfies him will he talk about you to your peers? Are you okay with that?
Making out with someone is SOO much better when both of you are crazy about each other not just going through the motions so you can say "I made out". Think of yourself as an older lady remembering your first kiss (make out session) Do you want it to be a sweet memory or a what a mistake that was?
I hope you get what I'm saying.
Take your time. If he's worth it he'll be there for you getting to know you as a person and looking forward to show affection in a physical form.
Maybe I have dinosaur thinking. I'm old enough to have seen other girls get into things too soon & regret it and peers remember what they've done.
Labels stick.
Learning by observing, I'm happy with most of my decisions and I'm well respected. No bad labels. :-)
Think about your future self. Hold off on the lust until you informed and ready...please.
Good Luck hon.
You may not be ready and that's cool.

Answer 2

if he really likes you let him make the first move, he will give you a caring and adoring type look and then you will know he wants something. Dont worry about being bad everyone has to learn just admit that you have never done it before.

Answer 3

firstly look them in the eye, then move closer, look at their lips so they get the idea that you are gonna kiss them. then tilt your head slightly and move in. you nose should be next to and beside theirs. part you lips slightly and make sure they are not dry or too wet. put your lips on theirs. chances are you will land on their top lip if you are taller. be gently. they will kiss back. if your mouths open a little, move your tongue in. only a little though. touch their tongue softly then withdraw. simple dude. only do the tongue thing if they open their mouth more though. have fun too, just dont be rough or slobbery

Answer 4

if you dont know how to kiss then you dont need to worry about having a boyfriend.

Answer 5

Eh, don't worry about it. If you don't know how you probably aren't ready for it.

Answer 6

just do it