Hi everyone..Happy holidays.
ok this is my 1st yr with my g/f and we only been dateing for about 5mths..I asked her what she wanted for xmas she told me not 2 get her nothing cus she has to pay for her court feed or w/e somthing like 800 but i still wanna get her somthing but have no idea..i cant get her earings cus she dont have them done..im scared to give her make-up cus she might think..wtf? or purfume she might think she dont smell good....so girls what do your b/fs get u? and guys what do u get ur girls?
2006-11-27 15:11:54 · 17 answers · asked by Jeff 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
what about a neclace or bracelet...
2006-11-27 15:15:14 · answer #1 · answered by Katie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you live in a cold climate, how about a casmere scarf or gloves? (check out Land's end or Smartbargains.com). Casmere "anything" is a rather elegant gift she can use and will be easy to size. Pashmena scarfs are beautiful too and are worn over the shoulders like a shawl. If you're in a warmer climate, get her a beautiful silk scarf that she can wear around her shoulders. A mirrored compact case would be nice; she can carry it in her purse. In otherwords, go all out on a small elegant gift. Please don't be afraid to tell a good sales lady what you're needing; look for an older lady, she'll have some great ideas! Dont' worry, you're giving with your heart! Godloveya, and happy holidays!
2006-11-27 23:18:31 · answer #2 · answered by Sassy OLD Broad 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being female, after 5 months of dating I would be happy with a DVD we could watch together, a bath and body gift basket, a good book, a massage? Whatever you decide I would keep the cost under $50 more than that might seem a little desperate so soon.
2006-11-27 23:18:27 · answer #3 · answered by Supa_Star124 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since you seem to be worried about getting her material stuff, than you should just get her a nice photo frame that has a nice embroidery with a pic of the two of you in the holiday time. Sometime to that effect thats more meaningful and doesn't haven't be sometihng like jewelry or perfume.
2006-11-27 23:28:03 · answer #4 · answered by kadeah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i've only had one girlfriend,,,, and i wasn't with her long enough to get her anything. :)
but i'd just think about what some of her interests are, and get her something related to that.
if she likes chocolate, get her some chocolate.
if she likes music, get her a cd or dvd with a band she likes.
if she likes sports, maybe a piece of sports equipment
etc....
but of course for a girlfriend you need something romantic and personal, so i think a card/note/letter that includes how you're feeling about her and why you like her would be nice as a keepsake.
she can always look at it and think of you.
2006-11-27 23:19:55 · answer #5 · answered by bad_ambassador 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i guess i would like something more personal, like a cd of one of my favorite bands or concert tickets. or jewelry, every girl likes jewelry. it doesn't have to be earrings, it could be a pretty necklace or bracelet. flowers are always a good present(roses or orchids) if you are a musical person, writing a song for her would be really sweet. whatever you get her it is the thought that counts :)
happy holidays!
2006-11-27 23:18:43 · answer #6 · answered by magicalmoments3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok well if it was me in your place i would probly make her a cd of songs that mean something to you to and songs that make you think of her. ask her to go with you to the mall to get a gift for your cousin or sister if you have one and she will probly be like oh shed like this or any girl would like one of these and she will probly look at stuff she likes also. maybe even here id buy me one of those if i had the money and then there you go you know what to get her
2006-11-27 23:17:31 · answer #7 · answered by cute redhead 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
personally, i think the sweetest gift ever would be a heart-shaped locket, with the date you got together on the back, or some sweet message on the back. something thoughtful is always good. you could take her somewhere, too, like on a picnic or just out to walk around in The City (for me, that'd be San Francisco, i dunno what 'big city' there is for you) which is always really fun. spending time with her is always great. good luck!
2006-11-27 23:16:20 · answer #8 · answered by hockeychickstagecrew 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, you could get her some movies she loves. Youcould get her a necklace, braclet, gift card for a massage. Something simple is best cuz you haven't been together long. you dont want to scare her. lol. but if she said don't get her something whatever you do "don't listen to her" she inside wants something. but not extravagent cuz she can't get you something.
2006-11-27 23:18:34 · answer #9 · answered by misti 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just give a her a very loving and caring card with a rose, and tell her how special she is to you.and be very romantic.plan a candle light dinner and take her dancing.most important show her how much you love her.
2006-11-27 23:16:09 · answer #10 · answered by shanan g 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she sounds pretty rough in spirit so you should get her a teddy bear and a nice necklace with candy and flowers the whole 9 yards
2006-11-27 23:16:53 · answer #11 · answered by Change 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋