We have been going out since last 8 months.But till now we just kiss each other.And when he asks for smooching i dont let him..If i dont let him smooch will he respect me more?
Or what shall i do?
But i afraid because i have heard from people that once a guy does all thi things before marriage he leaves that girl.
My bf isnt like that but still im scared.
I want him to have respect for me alwaysss.
2006-11-27 15:05:45 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
im 19 n my bf 23.Im muslim girl
2006-11-27 15:27:05 · update #1
Look - you either have respect in a relationship or not. The fact that all he asks for is kisses sounds very sweet and pretty respectfull. The best advice I have ever been given in relation to respect which I pass onto you know is the following ..."All woman are princesses, and should always been treated like princesses, especially while dating/courting; and if they are really really lucky, there husbands will continue to treat them like princesses after the wedding." You sound like to have a good thing going sweetie
2006-11-27 15:11:07 · answer #1 · answered by smile_girl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is such the wrong attitude....
I don't know how old you are or if your religion has anything to do with this but let me tell you something, denying sex before marriage is the fastest way to get rid of a guy.
Sex is what people do ok? That is part of the excitement and passion of new love. Respect and a deeper companionship come later (I'm talkin years)... You may get what you want in the short run with this strategy but it won't get you respect. This isn't the 1940's.
On the other hand, if he's obviously a dog and you know that he'll drop you the moment you let him go all the way, then just drop him first.
2006-11-27 15:17:19 · answer #2 · answered by RiceHunter 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Loose this guy. Find a guy who will respect you from the beginning. There are guys out there like that. You shouldn't have to coax someone to respect you. Maybe they do one or two things that don't show respect, and they just do it because they don't realize what they're really doing. And if you tell them, and they really respect you, they'll listen, consider and change. They should think of you before themselves.
2006-11-27 15:09:42 · answer #3 · answered by Jessie M 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think he does have some amount of respect for you. If a guy was just trying to sleep with you he wouldn't waste his time for eight months with no luck. He would be long gone by now. Have a little faith in this guy. He may be thinking a little better of you than you are giving him credit.
2006-11-27 15:09:38 · answer #4 · answered by whosaysdiscoisdead 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should wait until you are married and thats fo sho.. also if he has no respect for you you should find someone who does because you dont want to be miserable now do you? and thats how you will end up, please dont let guys disrespect you its a very bad thing to get into. and if you want him or any one else to respect you, you must must must have respect for yourself and that is the only way.
2006-11-27 15:12:09 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to be sure to stick to your morals and ideals. No compromising them! If you do not take any junk from a man (no need to be mean about it, just firm) then the respect is long lasting. Trust me, I learned the hard way.
2006-11-27 15:08:34 · answer #6 · answered by amoroushotmama 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Respect yourself first and others will respect you. If you don't set these standards for yourself, how do you expect them to listen to you?
You loving him has nothing to do with this.... you have to be loving yourself first.
2006-11-27 15:16:38 · answer #7 · answered by Tired of being Mr. Nice 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u r good girl
i think u r right
because if u refuse to do that with him , he will know that u r good girl and u will never let any guy touch u
2006-11-27 15:09:35 · answer #8 · answered by micho 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get a new boyfriend if u dont feel he has the respect that u want from him
2006-11-27 15:09:30 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
first of all, u have to respect yourself to gain others respect. second, respect your bf so that he'll respect you.
2006-11-27 15:10:54 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋