This girl i hate keeps talking to my bf n they r friends.... How do i tell her to back off. what can i do...
2006-11-27 15:03:23 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If your bf likes her as a friend and you try to interfere he will only resent you. If you cant trust him then why bother being with him at all? You cant go thru life babysitting your boyfriends or husbands.
2006-11-27 15:06:25 · answer #1 · answered by Dovahkiin 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If u dont like her u shouldnt stop ur bf from talking to her. Depends on how they talk to. I have a gf and it makes me jealouse every time she talkes to a guy, or laughs when a guy talkes to her. But i know that she will never try anything or leave me. Just talk to her, if its possible and tell her how u feel. But if he leaves u for her then he wasnt the one for u.
2006-11-27 23:10:15 · answer #2 · answered by Cameron M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm in the same situation.
Don't tell her to back off. Leave her alone. It'll only start drama.
Just let them be friends (unless she's hitting on him or getting really touchy-feely) because if you tell her to back off, he will think that you're being too controlling.
2006-11-27 23:09:50 · answer #3 · answered by Dr. Dana 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just ask her if her intentions or good if shes lieing shell do something like "what would make you think somethin like that" with this big bright smile on her face. If shes telling the truth she'll be like "were just friends" and drop it like its nothing but if you see her flirting with him and sharing little glances with you and prancing around him like a love struck idiot, make your move
2006-11-27 23:13:43 · answer #4 · answered by Change 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u will show jealousy to ur bf then he can be uncomfortable, if he is honest with u, nd he loves u truely then don't worry, nd don het jealous bcoz of his other relations, don try to bind him. u can stop him once but not again n again it can happen again, so if he is really urs he will be urs. otherwise if he goes then let him, leave on him. trust ur love... but don show ur jealousy to gal then she can make use of it. just give more love to ur love... u can stop him ny ur love(i dont mean by sex).
2006-11-27 23:09:55 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you hate her she knows you hate her and she is just coming around to get under your skin. What i think that you might want to do is maybe just start hanging around your boyfriend and his friends when they come around soon she will realize that she can't effect you like that anymore and move on
2006-11-27 23:06:45 · answer #6 · answered by Missy_Eye's 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
does yourbf know u dont like this girl maybe he is just staying friends with her cause he knows u dont like her but from expeience being jelous will get u know where except losing the person
2006-11-27 23:08:07 · answer #7 · answered by lovergirl24oh 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should just talk to your bf and see if they could spend more time with you than with the girl and maybe your bf will just spend more time with you and you wont have to worry about her being around anymore!!!
~good luck~
2006-11-27 23:06:15 · answer #8 · answered by -shannon, 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Tell your bf not to talk to her.
2006-11-27 23:07:07 · answer #9 · answered by You Lames! 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you don't tell her to back off ... she's expecting you too ... what you need to do is just befriend her (keep your friends close but your enemies closer .. ) once she sees that your not threatened by her the game is over ... so just play along ... besides your b/f will see how mature you are.
2006-11-27 23:05:48 · answer #10 · answered by emnari 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋