I've been w/o a bf for a while like 10 months. I'M not sure if I should lose weight get all shallow and catty and be back in relationship mode where I feel validated and confident Cuz i have a bf and u don't >:p..... or just stay single. I've gained weight and I'm not as confident about my looks as I was, I'm still cute though, so a relationship seems a little scary to me right now. Lately I've realize that I'm lonely and horny. But is this a good enough reason to get into a relationship? All be it I'm really horny and kinda lonely. IDK?
2006-11-27 14:59:10 · 9 answers · asked by evilive 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Relax. Don't be in a hurry to get involved again. Take some time to become reacquainted with yourself. Use this as an excuse to work on building your self esteem. Too many women seem to think they're only worthy if they see themselves reflected in the eyes of another. Be yourself for awhile and see how that feels. If you get an itch, scratch it, but don't fool yourself into thinking you've got to have somebody there.
2006-11-27 15:07:58 · answer #1 · answered by Reo 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't get into a relationship for relationship's sake, but if you really are *that* horny, there's nothing wrong with having a no-strings-attached sex partner (emphasis on "A").
2006-11-27 23:03:44 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
ok for one you dont need aboy friend you dont need a guy in order to make you happy and there are other ways of taking care of you needs than a bf or a one time thing take care of you make you happy then find a guy that fits in your happy life
2006-11-27 23:03:54 · answer #3 · answered by cute redhead 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
u should loose the weight and once u look pretty, take a stroll down at the nearest place with pretti boiz XD
2006-11-27 23:03:12 · answer #4 · answered by shelau 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That's life
2006-11-27 23:01:07 · answer #5 · answered by Nick (The Average Joe) 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
how about some self gratification and a couple of really good friends to hang out with..works for me lol
2006-11-27 23:01:45 · answer #6 · answered by Tek ~aka~Legs! 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You might as well have fun for now until you meet that person which moves you.
2006-11-27 23:03:52 · answer #7 · answered by ? 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you get into a relationship because you find someone to care for and who cares for you --- dont stress --- let them find you
2006-11-27 23:01:46 · answer #8 · answered by trader1867 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
where do you live? lol. do what u gotta do to feel good bout urself.
2006-11-27 23:10:13 · answer #9 · answered by Cuteguy1087 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋