I love my boyfriend alot and i dont know what to do bec. i knda want to talk to my ex. a little?

Question

i love my boyfiend but i kinda wanna talk to my ex a little you know just to see whats up but i feel like i am cheating on my bf am i or do i have feeling for another man ?

Answer 1

lets think about this. hes your ex for a reason, been there done that. talking alittle to him could turn into alot, think about it this way if your boyfriend said he wanted to talk to his ex just alittle what would you do? Bottom line think about if you're willing to risk your current relationship for dipping back in the water with an ex? remember the grass is always greener on the other side even if you've been there before.

Answer 2

I know exactly what you mean, I love my gf, but I a part of me also wants to talk to my ex because I am interested in how they've been, its not that your in love with them, but the fact is that when you were with your ex you two didn't end on a bad note, and because of that you two still get along, so its not cheating, just don't keep it a secret, but also don't spend too much time talking to your ex, do it periodically..its just like having a friend, you like to talk to friends and so you have to see your ex as a "friend" and not as your "ex" hope that helps..

Answer 3

it's not considered cheating. you and your ex are probably over each other, and it could be a friendly greeting. maybe, if you search a lot, you'll find you DO still like him. Look back on why you broke up, that's where your answer lies.

good luck!!

Answer 4

Yeah, your heart is "unfaithful." I'll tell you what, if you have doubts about the breakup with your ex, then contact your ex. If you wait too long like I did, you will regret it.

Answer 5

It is not cheating until you WANT to cheat. Talking did not hurt anyone.