Ok here's the story.. i have been going out with my bf for nearly a year and there is this girl who is always telling my bf that she likes him and that she has had feelings for him longer then we have been going out for.. My bf says she'll get over it and he loves me as i love him... is there a way i can tell her or is there a way i can give her a sign to F*** off and leave my bf alone.. it is honestly making me feel jealous of course.. but to me she is relly pretty and im worried that eventually she will win him over.. not only that she keeps going over his house and wants to go out with him.. he won't say no he isn't a mean person.. how do i tell her to back the f*** off!!! ??? please help
2006-11-27 14:55:55 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Your BF should tell her to stop. The only reason he could have for letting it continue is he likes it, is this the kind of BF you really want? He must a be a good guy, so let him show his love for you by telling the other girl to stop, he has a GF. Your telling her to stop will carry no weight unless he supports it and backs you up.
2006-11-27 14:58:07 · answer #1 · answered by gare 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i hate it when guys say i can't be mean. there are some times when your bf needs to mean and this is one of them. There is no reason this girl should still be bothering u all. He needs to man up and tell her to **** off. If he isnt that there is something wrong there, either he doesnt respect your relationship or his *** is cheating on you.
2006-11-27 15:00:55 · answer #2 · answered by hazellaura 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he won't tell her no when she asks him to go somewhere with her, then he is cheating on you. What I would do if I were you, is show up at his house when you know she is there.
2006-11-27 15:01:45 · answer #3 · answered by sweetgurl13069 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like you have a few insecurity issues..as long as your boyfriend isn't having a problem with it why should you? why not be proud you have a man someone else is after? kind of like seeing the glass half full eh?
2006-11-27 14:58:22 · answer #4 · answered by Tek ~aka~Legs! 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You say he isnt a mean person well hellooooooooooo he is being mean to you by accepting her for what she is doing to you , he needs to fix it not you.
2006-11-27 15:00:18 · answer #5 · answered by blue_eyed_woman_of_3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, just tell her that your bf loves you and only you and wld not dump you for someone else. also remind her that she is degrading herself by STALKING him. that shld put her in her place. good luck.
2006-11-27 14:59:41 · answer #6 · answered by mapgal 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you go up to her and say "**** off ***** this is my turf" hehe....she will, and your man will see how agressive you are towards other women who try to take your man and possibly fall deeper in love. I dunno so i dont have any experience but it seems more like commmon sense.
2006-11-27 14:59:05 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
is the girl lindsay lohan?
2006-11-27 14:57:17 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
slap her. lol
2006-11-27 14:59:03 · answer #9 · answered by max p 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋