Me and My Boyfriend Have Been Together Almost 5 Years.....But I Dont Think We Love Each Other Anymore....We Fight Alot....We Call Each Other Names....He Hits Me When He Gets Mad....He Lies To Me...He Doesnt Tell Me That He Loves Me Or He Doesnt Give Me Good Comments Like He Use To....Im Thinking About Braking Up With Him But I Hate It When He's Not Around....So Does That Mean I Still Love Him?? What Do You Think I Should Do???
2006-11-27 14:53:19 · 10 answers · asked by krystal_loves_you88 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sounds like a loser to me.....NO EXCUSE WHATSOEVER FOR EVER HITTING A WOMAN!! What is he a "TOUGH GUY"? The boy needs to have his little wussy butt kicked by someone! You should run away from him as fast as possible. But if you don't, you will continue the cycle, giving the jerk what he needs to feel BIG AND BAD! Good luck sweety you are really in need of a change, and the loser you call your boyfriend does NOT need to be a part of said change!
2006-11-27 14:58:07 · answer #1 · answered by weazalus 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I believe that you have run out of self-esteem, self-respect and self-love. You are thinking about breaking up but you hate not being around him. Do you approve of abusive relationships. Did you come from a home that was similar to what is going on in your life now? You do still have feelings for him, they are just misguided feelings. Because if you were more secure with yourself the decision to leave would have been made long ago. Yes, you need to get out of that black hole of a miserable stench... you call a relationship! He needs to be set free as much as do. You need some happiness and stability and security in your lives. You need to start over without each other and allow some new light to come in. There is not enough strength in the world to go on trying to withstand pain like that. I feel for you. Get away from him.. You both really need some breathing space... FOR GOOD! Don't wait another minute. I'd hate to think that you will regret it later. It can only get worse... As if your situation as is weren't enough. Good Luck
2006-11-27 23:14:26 · answer #2 · answered by Ice Princess 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Dear Kris, better for you to ending this relationship.
Demanded common sense not just an emotional drives. This relationship has no future at all,
He doesn`t respect you, it proved He could hit you when getting mad. Can you see, this has gone too far...
So You must strong and see the reality, face the truth that He is not a Good one for you, you deserved to have more than that, of course you do want have serious relationship, don`t you?
Good Luck...
2006-11-27 23:13:05 · answer #3 · answered by didi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i think that you shouldnt fully break up, but tell him u just need a little space. if he stil does love u then hell except that and ull noe that he still cares for you. maybe u just miss him because uve been together for so long. but u dont hit people that u love so i definitely think u cant leave things the way they r. and maybe the love that u used to hav for him as a gf has turned into the love for him as a friend. u just really need to do what ur heart tells you, that way ull noe that what you did was right and youll have no regrets.
GOOD LUCK!!
2006-11-27 22:58:50 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Get out of the relationship. Five years invested and what is the return to you? You have co-operated in a silly folly for 5 years. Love him? Him love you? Surely you joke.
2006-11-27 22:58:10 · answer #5 · answered by tjdepere2003 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i reallly think u should break off the reason u feel bad when he is not around is because ur used to him.
but i think u should reallly, really break it up cause he beats u when he gets mad.
that's being violent
if u think ur worth being beatin by a guy then u should say
if not
then break it up
good luck
2006-11-27 22:56:37 · answer #6 · answered by Hally berry 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Time to break a bad habit. He's not treating you well so it's time to have some freedom for you both. Say goodbye. Now.
2006-11-27 23:05:37 · answer #7 · answered by SANDY T 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
He is abusing you in more than one way, he has no respect for you and it doesn't sound like you have much respect for yourself
It's time to leave before something really bad happens.
2006-11-27 22:57:23 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Break up with him!!! The sooner, the better. Run, don't walk away from him. If he is abusive, you deserve to be with someone who won't beat on you.
2006-11-27 22:57:07 · answer #9 · answered by sweetgurl13069 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
he hits you --- thats enough --- call the police on him and kick him out --- there is no excuse for hitting you
find someone that cares for and respects you
2006-11-27 22:57:24 · answer #10 · answered by trader1867 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋