lets say u have a crush on a guy in class but he doesnt really have a lot of interest in you, now there is this other guy whos really nice to you but u dont have a crush on him. You often flirt with the guy you like but it seems like he'll never ask you out, would you move on to another guy whos been nice to you the whole time or keep trying?
2006-11-27 14:44:30 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
One of the guys is a one nighter and the other a lifer. You aren't old enough and haven't had your heart broken enough times to see who is which.
2006-11-27 14:47:17 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep trying. There's alot to be said for chemistry, and someone could be the nicest guy in the world, but if there isn't a spark with that person, it is pointless and hurtful to pursue it. Some people play the "wait and see" game, but I always knew within minutes of meeting someone if that person was potential relationship material. It's great to be friends with the people you don't have chemistry with, but it's not usually a good idea to force feelings just because someone's nice.
2006-11-27 22:49:41 · answer #2 · answered by angel444 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We always want what we can't have and for some reason torture ourselves with situations like that. Just because the other guy who does like you is available and interested, doesn't mean that he's not a good catch. Sometimes you have to look beyond the "bad boy" sydrome. Nice guys are not boring, they will just treat you better.
2006-11-27 22:48:57 · answer #3 · answered by dreamer1414 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats a hard question. what you gotta ask yourself is that could you go out with that other guy with thinking bout your crush? if not, it might be unfair on the guy with a crush on you. however, if it will never happen with your crush, it might be worth goin out with the other guy. give him a chance, you might fall for him and forget about your crush. their is nothing worse then wanting someone who doesnt want you. so i would give the other guy a chance.
2006-11-27 22:48:47 · answer #4 · answered by marcvialli 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go for the nice guy. but you really shouldnt be with someone your not really interested in. but just try him out. if you begin to like him great, if not move on.
2006-11-27 22:53:37 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol i would go for the nice guy obviously, tell the girl you like her, if you dont your gunna get her feelings so down that she will never like you again. your the guy which means your suppose to go for the girl. im sorry but its not the other way around. guys shouldnt play hard to get.
2006-11-27 22:48:31 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would probably keep trying and not go for the guy who has a crush on me but in return i have no feelings for him...been there done tht...lol
2006-11-27 22:47:19 · answer #7 · answered by blue rose 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I had the chance to do high school over again. I would do away with all crushes and advances and concentrate on my studies.
2006-11-27 22:47:16 · answer #8 · answered by bellbottombleus 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
u should go for the nice guy
2006-11-27 22:46:23 · answer #9 · answered by Wildfire 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
move on to the nicer guy leave the other one in the dust
2006-11-27 23:04:34 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋