theres a girl in my class, and right now shes got a crush on my good friend (who is also in the same class). My friend dont really put effort in asking her out beucase he doesnt like her. after she tell him that she likes him, hes goin to turn her down. I was wondering, would she start to like me if ive been nice to her all this time? ive heard that if a girl didnt like you before, chances are theyll never like you ...this makes me sad :'(
2006-11-27 14:18:47 · 14 answers · asked by Regular Guy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ask her out tell her you like her chances she will like you good luck
2006-11-27 14:23:09 · answer #1 · answered by amanda 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats not true for all girls... If you really like her, ask her out. I know it might be nerve-wracking or embarrasing if she were to say no, but isnt that better than constantly wondering what could have been? Keep being nice to her, maybe she will take notice, if not, you could always go up to her and say "(friends name) may not feel this way but I think you are really..."- fill in the blanks. Good Luck.
2006-11-27 22:25:34 · answer #2 · answered by Ash_082 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Turn the charm on.
I'm seriously, turn it way on and go out of your way to notice her.
A comment here, a hello here. Even a smile will sure to get yourself in good graces with her.
And if you already talk to her, ask her to hang out with you one day or ask her to a dance.
And as for the comment that guys don't have a chance?
That's all bull.
You have a chance still because people change, girls preferences change and she might all of a sudden see something in you that she didn't before.
Good luck.
2006-11-27 22:23:03 · answer #3 · answered by Jayden 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
who knows, but use the person you know best for an example, (yourself) everyone's differant, so is it possible that you'd like someone who was nice to you ? or ask yourself, if you don't nessacerelly like someone, could you change your mind? why not ask her to chill sometime, or go on a date with another friend as well. You dont have to "go Out" to go on a date. it can just be a one time fun date, it can help you get to know her better.
2006-11-27 22:23:57 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to make you sad but it is mostly true If you have been being nice all this time and she still hasn't noticed you, she isn't going to. Go find someone who will be happy to be with you
2006-11-27 22:21:55 · answer #5 · answered by CindyLu 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should go for it! Tell her to forget your friend, she doesn't deserve someone like him. I deffinatly would say you have a chance. Hope evrything goes well. Good Luck :)
2006-11-27 22:21:34 · answer #6 · answered by Imogen F 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry about the other guy its worth a shot to ask her out if she say no atl east you tried.
2006-11-27 22:21:55 · answer #7 · answered by Crystal D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It changes all the time. If your sweet to her, there's a good chance she will like you. Don't ignore her!!!!
2006-11-27 22:24:04 · answer #8 · answered by Kate 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, if she didn't like you she may never and if she does, it may be just to make the other guy mad in class, so let it go.......
2006-11-27 22:27:50 · answer #9 · answered by mskash 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This isn't true just because a chick don't like you at one time don't mean they never will. But she might think you were just being nice because of your friend. So i dunno but that so not true.
2006-11-27 22:22:05 · answer #10 · answered by cndrll_1613 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋