My boyfriend told my friend that he was going to break-up with me just to make me sad. what do i do? HELP!!!!!

Answer 1

my boyfriend has done that to me alot recently maybe hes trying to make a point or something

Answer 2

I know you don't want to hear this but I think you should break up with him. He is doing this to manipulate your emotions. He told your friend what he intended to do. He knows very well, that your friend is loyal to you and that this will get back to you. He will expect you to react by being more attentive to him or give him something that you've been denying him. The danger here to remember is that he is manipulating you for his own selfish reasons. If I was going to break up with my girlfriend and I was serious about, I wouldn't tell her friends. It is also an indication of the way he hold you, not in a very good light. he expects you to do whatever it takes to please him, b/c you like him and don't want to be alone. It will be fine in the long run. Break with him first. You deserve better than that. Good luck!

Answer 3

Never let a man or anyone play with your emotions and feelings. If he said this to you playing or not. There is parts to it that mean just that. As hard is it may sound, LET HIM GO!. You don't want someone juggling with your life undecided of their future but keeping you on the arm for the ride. This ride may never end. There is definitiley someone out there waiting for you to come into their life.

Answer 4

Anyone who would play with someone's emotions and feelings in this manner is not someone you should be around. Turn the tables and you dump him first. If he would deliberatly try to make you sad you do not need him at all so kick him to the curb right now.

Answer 5

I be telling him I was leaving him and go away for a few days to see how he would like a nasty and cruel trick played on him.
I hate game players and people who plays cruel pranks on there partners just to see there actions.
Tell him to grow up and make sure he knows how hurtful he was and you never thought he could be like that??

ALSO

Be careful he isn't thinking this any way and just seeing what your reactions are if he did leave..
maybe he is testing fate before he takes the leap.

Either way its not a nice thing for any partner to do.

Answer 6

Ask him if it is true, if he says no you have to take his word for it, of course unless he is not trustworthy, and if that is the case breaking up is the best thing for you. If he says yes it is true, just look at him and say thank goodness I was worried you were trying to stick around, and then wipe your forehead in relief.

Answer 7

Dump him first. Don't let on that you knew he was planning on breaking up with you. Should confuse him. Then move on and forget about him. He's too big of a loser to waste tears on.

Answer 8

Definitely dump him! It wont hurt as much if u beat him to the chase and he obviously doesnt care about u if he said that to ur friend

Answer 9

make sure that when he's going to break up with you it's at some food place (esp. starbucks) and when he does pour whatever you have ALL OVER HIM!!!! kinda harsh, i know, but hey he's breaking up with you to make you sad so....besides you've only got one life to live so why not live it? GO GET 'IM GIRLS!!!! =D

Answer 10

why would he do that?! hhmm... on the time he's gon break up with you, beat him up to it... like tell him that "i know what you're gon do..dont u dare!"... hehe' or ask ur friend a favor to let your friend ask your bf y would he do that.. coz breakin up with you with a reason that he just wants to make u sad is soooo unreasonable...