ok like i said, she said she wanted jsut freinds like 4 weeks ago. i havnt moved on becuase she told me that she sees us together in the near future. we recently had a little fight bcuase she said she watned to kiss me and i said do u like me again? and she said no. i got upset that she wanted to kiss me but diddnt like me. we smoothed all that out and were normal again, but see, she still calls me everyday over anyone else. i dont understand, she shows all signs of liking me, but says she doesnt :(, help
2006-11-27 14:04:26 · 34 answers · asked by Duff M 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ok thx everyone so far, but see, she told me, she doesnt knwo what she wants.........yet she keeps me right there outside her door...she wont let me go :(, she told me a kiss could change her heart. i want to kiss her.....but i dont want to if shes just lookin for "goods" for her self.Shes never kissed a guy.. this is insane, u girls should know how much power u have over a guy when he loves you.....she can drop me to my kness with words :( what do i do
2006-11-27 14:31:31 · update #1
there are many possible reasons including (1) her trying to play hard to get (2) her being just as confused as you are, or (3) she knows that she is not ready for a serious relationship and is preparing her self for that type of commitment. so you should have a talk with her to see how she really feels and then you can {collectively} move on in the relationship...p.s. it sounds like you really love her!!! that is truly great, treat her like a QUEEN!!!
2006-11-27 14:10:12 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-11-27 14:05:28 · answer #2 · answered by Iamman 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
This sounds like the relationship my brother was into...And I can just say: GET OÙT!! before it destroys you..
She was having some sort of problem and broke it off, but they should still be friends. And that made it really hard for him, since he still liked her. And they were on and off again alot during two years, before she just moved out of town,
leaving him devastated(spelling..). He is actually really good looking, all my friends have a "crush" on him, but his selfesteem has become really low because she used him and never made him feel loved.
What I think was her problem, was that she liked him, but wasn't in love anymore. And she liked having him around, cause he was so reliable and she felt safe with him. Call him her safety-net or something.
And that could be the problem here too. Ofcourse, what happened to my brother doesn't have to be the case here. She is maybe a little scared of moving on, and wants you there for comfort. She might need some time to think through what she wants. You should try and do the same. And, I don't know whether you do or not, but don't come running everytime she calls.
2006-11-27 14:13:52 · answer #3 · answered by eira_ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you have someone playing with your emotions. You don't need that, no one does. Just be there for her as a friend. Do not let her sample any more of the "goodies." Cut her off. Move on with your life and find someone who will appreciate the great guy that you are because toys are for kids and and you have to let her know you are not to be played with. Can you see yourself living your entire life like that (being manipulated and played with)? Then get up, get out, and get something else.
2006-11-27 14:08:30 · answer #4 · answered by volkgal 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like she's not sure what she wants.. or is a player sorry to say and just wants a guy for the sake of being with someone and not the meaning behind it. You are worth more than that and deserve better. Find yourself a girl who likes you for you and will talk to you openly about things like this. If she says she doesnt like you.. she probably doesnt. Move on, but be nice about it.
2006-11-27 14:09:52 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she's having some trouble. You two should probably have a good long talk about what your relationship and where the boundaries are.
It's not healthy nor is it beneficial to have this sorta-together/sorta-not. It makes things complicated and upsets everyone inovolved.
2006-11-27 14:08:32 · answer #6 · answered by Bookworm 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seems to me that she's got you hooked and you don't realize it. Have some respect for yourself buddy, don't let her toss you around like this. Give her the cold shoulder and see if she doesn't come wandering around back your way. If she doesn't, then she isn't worth your while. Just don't forget to keep your lips off of her too, that would be a dead give away. Good luck.
2006-11-27 14:09:40 · answer #7 · answered by inquisitive 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At my age of 39 and a mother I would say,
Hun she is playing with you and I would highly recommend you to move on...
You can do alot better than this game player..
She doesn't know what she wants and if playing with someones emotions like she is with you, gets her off then she ain't a person I would want around one of my kids..
Tell her to grow up and you go find someone who does truly like you for you..
You deserve better..
MOVE ON>>
2006-11-27 14:09:33 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
some girls are just shy in expressing themseives it will take some time so be patient she wiill come around to wanting to talk about it sometimes a girl wants a kiss to see if they have any feelings for a guy so dont just jump into things
2006-11-27 14:11:47 · answer #9 · answered by killy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DUDE im not chic but move on i think she dont really want you but also dont want you with anyone else either, or she is playing a childish game of hard to get. to many mixed signals for me id drop that one.
2006-11-27 14:09:33 · answer #10 · answered by stephen s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋