Im a 18yr guy who has been dating a 17 yr girl (both seniors). We have been goin out for 2 months but broke up on the day b4 our 1 month and then got back together a few days later. she said she just didnt feel a spark but i got her to go back out with me. things were goin fine until we got back from a week vacation in SC. It was fun and we both had a good time but now, the day after we got back, she is beginning to get annoyed with me and im annoyed with her. should i keep my distance for a couple of days? we have been hanging out almost 24/7 for the past few weeks but now she doesnt want to do ne thing "sexual". we havent had sex.
2006-11-27 14:02:02 · 20 answers · asked by qwertysoc 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
We have 3 out of 5 classes together and sit next to each other in two of them. the thing is she alwasy wants to hang out and she enjoys hanging out with me nadi enjoy anging out with her but sometimes we start picking on each other playfully and we take it the wrong way. We are kind of a crazy couple who spend most of our time laughing and goofing off but sometimes i take her jokes personally, and she does the same with my jokes. she doesnt really like talking about things that bother her tho and will justsay imbeing annoying but wont say what i did to annoy her.
2006-11-27 14:35:18 · update #1
you all need to take a break. talk on the phone for the next few days and when you do, please listen to each other. it's too soon for sex if you're having probs already. i raise my hat to young people that can spend a vacation together and lets it be about fun and not just sex. bravo to you both. your both an inspiration to a lot of young adults and your parents should be proud. take your time. you may be crowdig each other and not know it. it's good to miss someone you care about sometimes. keeps the realtionship healthy. but if you really can't let get along, let go. some things are not meant to be. i was young once and i still remember. good luck to you both.
2006-11-27 14:17:56 · answer #1 · answered by NoDeal21 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hanging out with some one 24/7 can be really annoying give each other space a lot of it ....let her miss being around you talk on the phone a while or hang out like every weekend or something...and stop the sex for a while let her begin to crave it so next time you meet the sex is going to be crazy and passionate
2006-11-27 14:26:53 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
the final answer will come out of your intestine feeling. you have already spoke back your individual question its ordinary the spark isn't there anymore. So if that's what you think of is lacking you may attempt to recreate some spark. Take her out to not some unique date do something particular for her. i don't understand how previous you're yet i could experience remarkable if my guy set a candle warm bathtub in basic terms for the two one human beings alongside with a back rub. start up doing the little issues for her which will make her smile, a grin can bypass a protracted way. If she would not get exhilaration from it then bypass away her.
2016-10-13 06:10:26 · answer #3 · answered by farraj 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give her and yourself some space. If you can walk away and neither of you really misses each other, than there is nothing wrong with being friends, and not a couple.
You are young and will probably date many more people before you are ready to settle down with one person forever.
2006-11-27 14:05:09 · answer #4 · answered by Shelley 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are too young to deal with the drama right now. You may need to spend time apart. Two months of dating is too soon to start getting annoyed with someone. At this point, you two should be blinded by each others perfection!!!
2006-11-27 14:07:10 · answer #5 · answered by D'Mi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Familiarity breeds contempt...maybe you should take a shower/bath or sand blast if necessary more often, like once a day?
Maybe you stink? As in smell bad, offensive BO and or bad breath?
Soap and hot water ... get to it!
Brush your teeth Bubba it's a good habit like three times a day not a month!
2006-11-27 14:07:16 · answer #6 · answered by baltic072 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It just doesn't sound like this relationship is going to last. You've only been going out for two months, everything should still be great in that short of a time. I think it's time to cut your losses and move on.
2006-11-27 14:05:10 · answer #7 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is an old Greek proverb that goes like this: "One can tell if it's going to be a good day from early in the morning!"
I hope you get the meaning of it! And don't forget that there is lots of fish in the sea!
Good luck
2006-11-27 14:13:19 · answer #8 · answered by Nikolas S 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow. Who have you beeb dating??? Not all guys are like that. I know some guys like for their girl to fall asleep on their chest. Thats in a phase of intimacy. People think intimacy is all about sex but it is not. You need to find some better people to hang out with.
2006-11-27 14:05:52 · answer #9 · answered by gloried 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it looks like you 2 are AD (all done) and you should not be having sex, but if you must then make sure she is on the pill.
2006-11-27 14:07:12 · answer #10 · answered by Aliz 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋