I really like this boy, Derek. He is really cute, funny and likes me for who I am. I love hanging out with him and flirting. The past time I saw him he tried to kiss me, but I didn't. It just didn't feel right because his parents don't really like him flirting with his sisters friends. My parents and friends will aprove of him so it seems right. So what should I do next time. I am prolly going to sleepover at my friends house this weekend (whice is his house). If he tries this again, should I kiss him or not? I just don't wanna really like him, share this kiss then have him not ask me out! Please give me advice! I don't wanna end up with a broken heart!
2006-11-27 13:58:53 · 20 answers · asked by Alyssa M 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
don't kiss, karate chop him instead.....
2006-11-27 14:00:54 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Ive been through something similar. Well I ended up kissing this one guy and yeah it was my first time ever with any guy. Well he later told me that I could NEVER me his girlfriend because I told him I wanted to wait to have sex till marriage and he said he couldnt have a girlfriend unless they could have sex now. He was a complete jerk and I fell in love with him unfortunately. Now he as a girlfriend and theyre supposedly in love with each other. So from this I learned DO NOT kiss a guy u are not ina relationship with! If this guy wants to kiss u he should ask u out first if hes looking for something serious. If hes persistent in trying to kiss u but never asks u out then chances are hes not going to ask u out.
2006-11-27 22:05:48 · answer #2 · answered by deanda 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Danger Will Robinson! Danger! (you're probably too young to get that)
Derek just wants to get in your pants. Be careful! Kissing is fine, but watch out for more, especially sleeping over at his house.
2006-11-27 22:03:36 · answer #3 · answered by Pragmatic 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just go with your heart, if you think he really wants to be with you, and isn't just trying to kiss you for the fun of it.. then go for it.
Go with what you feel is right, me and my current boyfriend have been going out for over and month and we haven't kissed yet. So, just do what is right to you.
2006-11-27 22:02:47 · answer #4 · answered by StarChild 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find out anything you can from you friend first. Make sure she is cool with it, and she may have noticed whether he has been asking about you or not. If all the signs are good, GO FOR IT GIRL !!! :-)
2006-11-27 22:04:24 · answer #5 · answered by smile_girl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Slut behavior is slut behavior...no self respect is no self respect and it's not likely you'll develop any soon, so kiss him, then it's up to his room, then it's off to the Abortionist and you'll be ready to become a card carrying Clinton Liberal!! Hooray!
2006-11-27 22:02:51 · answer #6 · answered by baltic072 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really like him, kiss him, but if it doesn;t feel right, then don't
Or just try it, and see if you feel, the spark!
2006-11-27 22:02:58 · answer #7 · answered by California lvr 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you like him kiss him and have some good time , dont think about others.
2006-11-27 22:08:38 · answer #8 · answered by ram2k21 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmm, I would have to say that if you are ready for it, then you should deffiantley do it. never kiss someone you don't trust. and if you are ready then go for it.
2006-11-27 22:01:49 · answer #9 · answered by sally b 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go for it babe. well, when you're with him, at that moment if he tried to kiss you, go with how you feel at that moment right then.. whatever happens.. happens.
2006-11-27 22:02:59 · answer #10 · answered by tortl :) 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go for it and KISS the crap out of him!!!
good luck girl!!!
let me know what happens!!!
email!!!
2006-11-27 22:01:17 · answer #11 · answered by 6-17-06 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋