me and my b/f were making out on his bed and i really knew that it would lead to sex. i stopped and i told him that i wasnt ready. then we got in this big fight about what we should/shouldnt do and really random crap like "ur not my mother" and that i was cheating on him(which i'm not) and we broke up. we usually don't fight like that. it seems like all guys only have one thing on their mind, sex.
wtf is up with that?
2006-11-27 13:58:42 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
They typically have a higher sex drive than women. And at your age ( I'm guessing around 15) their hormone level is crazy. Don't take him back. Next time find a guy that will respect your wishes, and be sure to have a chat with him about how far your willing to go BEFORE things get hot and heavy. Just a tip. If he can't deal with what you want, move on, there are lots of fish in the sea. PS: you're young. it's not like you're planning on marrying any of these dudes. this is basically just practice 4 l8er.
2006-11-27 14:02:33 · answer #1 · answered by Liv 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Now you have to ask yourself the question. Did he like, love or care for me to begin with. I hope this opened your eyes so you can see that you are not a wild piece of meat. Maybe, it was him who is cheating on you and usually the accuser are the ones who is doing the cheating. Wait, in time you will see him with someone woman. Some men can't help their horny ways and not all men are like that.
His lost is the wonderful guy, you will meet one day who will love you and appreciate you for who you are. Trust me, we still have some good men out there.
Every rel-ship have its ups and downs, its how you deal or handle it. I always leave room for diappointments. You see how some men could make it harder for the good men, which will come your way and you will/may give them a hard time. My test is 3 months and I will tell them to take it or leave. If they leave to bad; I have morals.
That's one way for me to find out, if he's really interesting in knowing me. Look out for the sweet talkers, who will wine and dine you just to get to first base. They can be clever. And be honest with them about what you want and expect in a rel-ship and don't forget sex. You know what you want, let them know. I do.
2006-11-27 22:45:24 · answer #2 · answered by jenel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you being so manipulative? If you knew it was going to lead to sex and you weren't going to do it, then why were you making out with him? If you knew it was leading to sex then odds are so did he, and now you have it in you to question why he got pissed off at you and why all guys only have sex on their minds. You already admitted that you knew where it was going, so whats the point of trying to make it all his fault?
2006-11-27 22:02:57 · answer #3 · answered by Dame 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
To be honest, its really the ultimate goal. Dont hate him for it...
Sure I would love to say men only want you as a wonderful valuable partner they can spend all of their golden years with. But that is only a part of what they want.
But he was ridiculous for fighting with you.
2006-11-27 22:01:59 · answer #4 · answered by bluestar_dreamsx 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men are funny!!! They just can't help themselves though. Remember, they have two heads, but can really only think with one. It's really wierd though. If he got mad at you and broke up with you because of that issue, then he just isn't worth it. Move on!!!
2006-11-27 22:08:30 · answer #5 · answered by willia683 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not all guys are like that.......please don't stereotype! Some of us men DO have respect for women. Your BF is just an immature little a**.
2006-11-27 22:04:21 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
WTF is up with women with no common sense? u were in his bed making out and(he got s*x on the mind).....well...............................duhhhhhhhh.
if u was in an ice cream shop would'nt u have ice cream on the mind?
do u realize how confusing this would be to him. well i guess u never stopped and thought about that. did u? stop blaming and take some resposibility for ur actions.
2006-11-27 22:33:19 · answer #7 · answered by jesse james 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men are just very sexual beings as are women. If he broke up with you over this, be glad he's gone.
2006-11-27 22:01:49 · answer #8 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Men are DEE DEE DEE's.It's not your loss it's his!!!! So move on with your life and you'll find a guy to respect you:)
2006-11-27 22:06:28 · answer #9 · answered by Tasha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because they are guys and simple minded
2006-11-27 22:00:54 · answer #10 · answered by iadoremarilyn86 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋