Been in a relationship for 4 years now. B4 that there was a guy who was younger than me *21* I was 30. He tried SO hard to have me be his, but I thought I would ruin his life due to age ,so I let him go away being mad at me. my intentions. He has come around me here and there and now KEEPS trying. The guy I am with for 4 years has kept contact and even taken his ex's out to lunch even when I said that it was not a good idea even though he says he loves me. But the younger guy is all I think about. He is doing well and has a degree has all his crap together. He does not act young and is very sweet not to mention HOT HOT HOT, he has all these pretty younger girls after him but he is all about me and has been for 5 years now. What do I do I am not happy here but Do you feel like the age is really no big deal? I take good care of myself and no one ever guesses me to be my age they guess mid 20's. AM i a dummy for thinking this way? How do I let it go? ANY suggestions?
2006-11-27 13:56:50 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
why are going to let happiness pass you by and if this guy has girls throwing themselves at him believe he's caught some because he's a guy but he wont tell you that he'll just paint a picture that makes him seem more desireable but yall both grown who cares about anything else after that go get yo man
2006-11-27 14:00:57 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well sweety if you took the time to write all that, then someone needs to take time out to deal with this.
I am 23 male, and how to help you. Listen I like a lot of older women too. If I was him, I'd STAY coming after you.
Listen sweety I don't know what to say...
I need MORE. Like dones he want to marry you?? Is is just after you for sex?? What's wrong with you fooling around with this guy?? And no you won't ruin his life.. ohh no, you could teach him alot.As a matter of fact, listen to what this divorced lady told me...
" Always marry someone not close to your age."
And mame that stuck. I'd keep that boy close honey. Just keep him near you, don't get rid of him, just put him in the closet and leave him there, you'll soon fgure out what to do with him.
Love ya
2006-11-27 14:08:49 · answer #2 · answered by hhgdgdfg 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Over 18, you go girl, thats all I can say, i once was jail bait, te he he!, hubby is 7 years older, not bad now but was when I was 17! lol, be responsible and have fun, let me know, been thinkin about trading mine in on a younger newer version! j/k! lol, take care
2006-11-27 14:02:23 · answer #3 · answered by randi27 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go for it girl but realize that even if he seems to have his act together he is still only 21, so be realistic and don't expect too much from him. Just relax, get to know him and have fun.
2006-11-27 14:01:41 · answer #4 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you go to the one you WANT to be w/ not feel like you have to be w/ so if want to give this younger guy a chance then go for it b/c age doesnt matter just dont fall to hard for him and see what he thinks about dating older women and if he wants to split if you just keep some distance and dont get to caught up then it will all workout!
2006-11-27 14:01:26 · answer #5 · answered by breanna d 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry at all about the age ok who cares? If your not happy please get out of that relationship. Why do you care about what we think you look like? Have some confidence in yourself.
2006-11-27 14:07:02 · answer #6 · answered by Careatha 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
age aint nothing but a number if you really like him im sure you can work out any problem that is thrown at you good luck
2006-11-27 14:01:16 · answer #7 · answered by killy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋