how can i get my b/f to tell me he loves me??? im ready to tell him but i cant figure out y he aint tellin me it... should i hint at it? if so how???
answers are greatly appreciated!!!
2006-11-27 13:48:40 · 9 answers · asked by 6-17-06 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ahhhhh young love, it's so cute!
You do NOT want to "pressure him" into verbalizing it hun. I mean, you could sit down and talk with him, sort out how each of you are feeling, ask him to start up first. There's nothing wrong with you speaking your mind and letting him know that you have feelings of love. There's also nothing wrong if he's not ready to say it just yet either though. Good luck hun!
2006-11-27 13:51:45 · answer #1 · answered by Jen 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
First of all, if you have to "get him to" tell you that he "loves you", then HE DOESN'T! Love is a matter of THE HEART! It is A CHOICE that we make to COMMIT OURSELVES to someone TOTALLY! And that is called MARRIAGE! That brings me to my second point: HOW do you know that what YOU "have" for him is indeed "love"? What is YOUR BASIS for this? I'm not trying to confuse or judge you. Just pointing out the fact that too often these days, people mistake INFATUATION for "love"! Just because you FEEL all "warm and fuzzy inside" when he's around or even THINKING about him, that does NOT necessarily mean it's LOVE! Love INVOLVES "feelings", but it's SO MUCH MORE, SO MUCH DEEPER! As I've said, it's a matter of THE HEART, and it really is AN ACT OF YOUR WILL! This world equates "Chemistry" and "clicking with the right one" with "love", but what do THEY know? Hollywood, the Music Industry, Oprah, "Dr. Phil", etc really have NO clue as to what TRUE LOVE is! But I can tell you who does: the one who "is love", and that is JESUS CHRIST, who is ALMIGHTY GOD and gave the GREATEST proof of REAL LOVE by dying on the cross for YOUR SINS! (1 John 4:8; John 3:16&17). My question to YOU is, have you received HIS LOVE by believing that YOU NEED HIM as the sacrifice for your sins and the ONLY ONE who can save you from them and the HELL that you deserve eternally? REAL love is CHRIST DYING ON THE CROSS WHERE HIS BLOOD WAS SHED TO PAY THE PRICE FOR YOUR CRIMES AGAINST GOD (like lying, fornicating, hating, cursing, taking his name in vain, dishonouring father and mother, stealing, and living to please YOU rather than HIM). Your FIRST concern must be not whether your "boyfriend" loves you, but whether Jesus Christ is your BEST FRIEND or your WORST NIGHTMARE! Because after you die (and you WILL die one day!), that is ALL that will matter! Are you FORGIVEN AND SAVED BY JESUS CHRIST? If HE is in control of your life, you can be certain that He is concerned with EVERY area of your life, INCLUDING having a man who TRULY loves you and will PROVE IT by marrying you! "For God so loved the world that he gave his only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in him should not perish, but have everlasting life."
2006-11-27 14:11:50 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is a word that alot of people don't to quick. If you really want to know if he loves you watch his actions see how he reacts towards when situations come up. If you are to ever fall see if he will be there throgh your thick and thin.
2006-11-27 13:55:36 · answer #3 · answered by Bigwill 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can't make him. Sometimes it's hard for guys to say the words. Think of the things he does for you and little ways he shows he cares for you. When he's ready he'll say it.
2006-11-27 13:55:31 · answer #4 · answered by ? 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes the direct approach works the best. Like....." Say (name) you know I love you don't you ?" Bat your eye lashes like your gonna take off and fly around the room at him...see what his answer is ( giggle ) .
2006-11-27 13:53:32 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your boyfriend will tell you when he's ready. When he does it on his own time it makes it all the more special. Give him time....he will say those three words before you know it, and when you least expect it.
2006-11-27 13:52:16 · answer #6 · answered by Secrets 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You can't make anyone love you.
If he won't say it...most likely he doesn't feel it.
Don't set yourself up to get hurt. No one enjoys drama. If it isn't there, it isn't there.
2006-11-27 13:52:33 · answer #7 · answered by Chrissy: The Angry Typer a/k/a Mood Mole 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
euu should try to gave him hint...if even tat he can't know might as well breakkk....
2006-11-27 13:52:28 · answer #8 · answered by CuRiOuS bOuT jOb 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Maybe he does'nt
2006-11-27 13:50:32 · answer #9 · answered by jozzi boy 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋