Ok i have been going out with my boyfriend for 8 months now and there is this girl who constantly messages him and tells him that she still has feelings for him.. I'm getting cut.. she is really p***ing me off... :( she is so dumb... and immature and i really don't like her but she is so pretty... what can i do to drop the hint to her to leave my man alone... If i don't do it reasonably i shall kill... !!
2006-11-27 13:35:36 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Tell her straight up. Then ruin her rep if she don't listen
2006-11-27 13:37:15 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
OK. This worked for me so I'm gonna pass it on to you. Curse her out really good, then she should leave him alone. This works because now she knows that he has a woman in his corner who does not play that stuff. Once you instill a fear in her, she should back off. (the chick I dealt with wasnt pretty though) lol but there is no way to do this reasonably.
For all the people who is saying it is the bf's place to tell the girl to back off, how do you know that he is telling her and she's just not paying him any attention?? After that, the girlfriend should have the right to confront her.
2006-11-27 22:00:59 · answer #2 · answered by shaylolo51 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All you want is help you got to learn to stand on your own two feet and tell the girl what you want,to leave your man along.If you cant do this then your boyfriend don't mean very much to you.Why ask yahoo a question that you need to take care of yourself.No you want Kill you will not do or say anything if you were going to you would already done something so get up and do what you have to do.
2006-11-27 21:45:55 · answer #3 · answered by Douglas R 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
k, so this isnt only her fault..i understand what u are feeling but its also your mans fault. why in the world would she be texting him and all telling him she still loves him and **** if he would tell her no? he probably didnt so she has hopes. its his fault, he should stop ***** around and be straight up about it to her that he has u and wants only u...if guys could just say no to some, there wouldnt be all these crazy girls going after others bfs. he is leaving this battle up to u, making u lose your nerve over this woman and he is just standing there doing nothing and watching the show. if he was a real man he`d take a stand and blow her off once and for all but it seems he doesnt want that and likes the attention hes getting.
2006-11-27 21:44:01 · answer #4 · answered by mery b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not your job. It's your boyfriend. Tell him how you feel about it and then let him deal with it. If he doesn't well, obviously he likes the attention he is getting from this other girl and if that's the case you should dump him since he doesn't respect you. A real man will treat you with respect. Don't fool yourself otherwise. Good luck and hope I helped.
2006-11-27 21:44:46 · answer #5 · answered by just another girl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Always make sure you look better, that is the best revenge. And all it takes is a little white lie to get the ball rolling to ruin her rep, she seems like a trashy person with no respect for others, I hope your b/f can see through this. If you see her, just be nice and smile and say "I just want you to know that me and ____ are very happy and I will do what I need to to keep it that way, have a nice day" or something like that.
2006-11-27 21:40:57 · answer #6 · answered by dramafreak 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Umm sry but its him you should be at because if he isnt responding to her she wouldnt keep doing it he needs to say to her hey no im with someone back off and dont contact me. If you had an ex an contacted him and he answered and kept it going or didnt say no we are over that would be a green light for her to persue her feelings for him? It takes 2 to tango if one party doesnt play there is no problem logically ...think about it
2006-11-27 21:41:46 · answer #7 · answered by blue_eyed_woman_of_3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
find out when she is going to be out somewhere. Take your boyfriend with you. She will see you two together. When you catch her looking at him or getting ready to talk to him. Walk over, give him the hottest kiss you ever gave him, and wrap your arm around him. She will know that hes yours. I guess if that doesnt work you could always settle it out in the parking lot lol.
2006-11-27 21:41:44 · answer #8 · answered by Italian Tiger 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
tell her off with a sawed off. JKJKJKJK dont do that just tell her to step back or else you will tell her off by whatever means necesary
2006-11-27 21:39:45 · answer #9 · answered by Tyler 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Your man should be the one to tell her to stop.If he has any respect for you he will sever all ties with her.......
2006-11-27 21:40:30 · answer #10 · answered by jozzi boy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋