I like both of them but I am just not sure. They are both real nice. One is rich and handsome divorced w.2 kids, the other is cute, single no kids and never married, but middle class. they are the same age. I don't want to be alone anymore but I can't lead them both on. What should I do? Please be brutally honest
2006-11-27 13:31:36 · 15 answers · asked by angelsweet 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you arent going steady or engaged or married you can date how ever many you want at a time. Just be honest about the fact you dont date exclusively.
2006-11-27 13:35:05 · answer #1 · answered by Dovahkiin 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Brutally honest.....leave them both alone and look up the word morals in the dictionary,what you are doing is school girl drama and you want attention. Learn to respect yourself because what you are doing is disrespectful for others.You say you cant lead them on ? What do you think you are doing now for goodness sake?
2006-11-27 21:36:34 · answer #2 · answered by blue_eyed_woman_of_3 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Go for the man with no kids. That means no baggage. It is too much trouble to take on an already made family. I know and I still have to deal with the witch before me.
2006-11-27 21:34:16 · answer #3 · answered by Julie J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just date them. Let them know that you like both of them, but you would like the chance to figure out what you want. If one doesn't then date the other one. If you figure out who you want, then tell them and do not worry about hurting anyone's feelings. Dating is fun, but sometimes it hurts. Good luck
2006-11-27 21:36:40 · answer #4 · answered by Angela 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well.... depends... how serious the relationships are. I see no problem dating others if you have not covered the fact that you should be mutually exclusive. Just dont expect that he will not have another girlfriend if you are dating others as well.
2006-11-27 21:35:42 · answer #5 · answered by TAZZLOVER8 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it is ok to use them both as long as u don't mind if they r seeing other women. how would that make u feel, if they was seeing other women? I guess u can answer ur own question!
2006-11-27 21:54:03 · answer #6 · answered by jesse james 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're not sleeping with them and you haven't made any verbal commitment to couplehood yet, it would be okay just to say you're still seeing other people. I think it's healthy to take your time deciding.
2006-11-27 21:36:35 · answer #7 · answered by mj_indigo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
choose the one you like the most, because you can't possibly be falling in love with 2 people.
2006-11-27 21:35:00 · answer #8 · answered by superboredom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you are not ready for a relationship.You should know what you want out of a relationship and that should be your main priority.Once you know what you want.choosing bewteen them should be easy
2006-11-27 21:35:57 · answer #9 · answered by jozzi boy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should do what makes you happy. If you can, tell them the truth and let them make the decision to continue to go out with you.
2006-11-27 21:34:38 · answer #10 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋