Can two people love each other and want to get married and not plan on having sex. I know this is stupid..but i wonder if it would last. lol Can two people be married and never have sex?....Because i got into an argument with my bf about this...lol and he called me stupid....hahhaa
2006-11-27 13:29:12 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well right now, he's really mad at me because of this. He doesnt hate me ..but he;s distant. tells me that It hurts him that i dont find him attractive enough ...and since we have our futures planned out (marriage) He wants kids eventually and I kinda do but not sure...and i think sex is nasty...i know im weird...lol...haha...i just dont know how to tell him that i love him beyond the physical ...im more worried about everything else....i hope im making sense.
2006-11-27 13:49:16 · update #1
oh and we are both virgins...
2006-11-27 13:49:53 · update #2
of course love can exist withouyt sex, many couple go for long periods without sex for many reasons. sex is an important way of being close and expressing love though.
2006-11-27 13:33:57 · answer #1 · answered by Sandra R 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Love Without Sex
2016-05-23 16:04:04 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you are compatible you may well love and care for him but you are not sexually attracted to him and that isn't fair on either of you. You should end the relationship for both your sakes let him find someone that will give him what he wants and the same for you.
Even if you are an Asexual or what that person said doesn't make it right that your BF should live in this way if he doesn't want to. It is very hard to end a relationship especially if you love the person but if it is the right thing to do it should be done
2006-11-27 19:39:53 · answer #3 · answered by Peachy Girl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't agree with many of the views here as I strongly believe you have some issues that will prevent you from having a normal, healthy future with this man. You sound much younger than your plans to marry suggest but it is obvious to me that this marriage will never work with such a fundamental difference between the two of you. I for one could never have had a meaningful relationship with someone who found sex "nasty" and I don't believe I'm in a minority.
2006-11-27 18:17:53 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You are trying to push your insecuritues about sex onto him, and force him into a sexless marriage to suit your needs, or lack of needs.
Remember if it wasn't for sex, you wouldn't be here in the first place. If you want to live a celibate life, do so, but don't force the same on him. Let him go and find someone who will enjoy sex with him.
2006-11-27 22:34:02 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you not want to have sex if your married? Its part of how you show your love for that person. You might as well be a nun if you never want to have sex. In the early years of marriage there's lots of sex and then years will go by and you may not have as much sex because of the stress of kids and work.
Are you scared to have sex???
2006-11-27 13:33:21 · answer #6 · answered by L♥G 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Sex generally plays an important role in a healthy romantic relationship (between two consenting adults).
2006-11-27 13:33:39 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
sex isn't nasty its part of life. it is possible to love without sex(i think). your both commited obvious by your engaement but theres commitment and Commitment. which does your future hubby go by. if he aint getting any and he wants it and goes elsewhere no judge in a divorce court will be in your favour. thats only one outcome. sex isn't life, but to have kids you need the sex. get help from a professional.
2006-11-27 21:34:51 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing impossible in the world. If both think their life this way, they can live together and enjoy. It would last as any relationship does till one party of the relationship breaks the contract rules;)
2006-11-27 13:46:26 · answer #9 · answered by Shirley 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Think about the relationship with your mom and dad. You love them but you don't have to have sex with them.
Sex is so much fun though.
2006-11-27 13:46:10 · answer #10 · answered by Greg S 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋