do you think that men should always be the ones to ask out girls?? Women are always talking about equal rights and everything.... so why shouldn't women ask out men once in a while??
2006-11-27 13:27:07 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
What 50's era BS gave you the idea that they DO?
Most men are WAY too insecure, oblivious to advances, and cowardly to do all the asking out or the breaking up. Heck, I'd never have any adventures if I waited for some wussy guy to initiate it. Anyway, I think its easier to get turned down than to turn someone else down.
Also, the shy types: If you never do the asking out, it is HIGHLY unlikely you'll ever get to sample a truly wonderful introvert.
So, yes. If someone wants to go out with someone else, they should ask them out. End of story. If they don't take the initistive, it's their loss and they'll have to live with it. If you get rejected, at least you KNOW.
2006-11-27 13:34:36 · answer #1 · answered by Roadpizza 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are a lot of women who ask men out. To be honest though, there are a lot of guys who have a problem with that. Some men feel it's too forward. Also a lot of women go dutch when out on a date and l think that is fair all round sometimes. Yes a lot of us women believe in equal rights and then some of us are shot down for being too forward. Gee, just can't figure some men out eh !! and you say we are hard to understand !!!
2006-11-27 21:45:59 · answer #2 · answered by kazzadanni 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on who you are asking. One thing to determine when meeting a potential mate, that right, mate or girls is what kind of views she has. You do this by engaging her in conversation. It is just a matter of discerning what she is like by what she says. Comment on something that would reflect her opinions and gauge her response. There is a difference in a way a christian and a non question would answer the same question. If u can pic on those differences then u could take the appropriate action. I am old fashion and think its the man's job to ask out. However, if she asks and it has happened to me, then just enjoy it. Women drop hints on themselves without knowing it. It just up to u to listen and respond appropriatly. Good luck and Cheers!
2006-11-27 21:36:30 · answer #3 · answered by Drockable 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, it's not supposed to be guys that must ask girls out. There's no rule to it.
Women do ask out men, just not very often. I had one that did ask me out.
And equal rights for women has nothing to do with women asking men out >_<
2006-11-27 21:30:14 · answer #4 · answered by John Doe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes! Listen, don't you feel some type of accomplishment when you get that girl you've worked for. Like "man that's my girl I pursued her. I put the bait out and she hooked on." If you get a girl who ask you out then you have an "I can be all that I can be and don't need no man" type of woman. And when you ask of her it will be like pulling teeth. Old fashion women who like to be chase, appreciate men more for that....Me and my girls were raised like that. I know what I can do for myself,but I also have a man and I want him to know that I know that and let him do his job.
2006-11-27 21:33:45 · answer #5 · answered by pooks2825 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Confident women do ask men out!
2006-11-27 21:28:57 · answer #6 · answered by Amy R 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no i think girls can ask guys out, i have before. but then the guy also seems to feel not like a "man" cause he couldnt get up the guts to ask her out and then it doesnt turn out as great at first but he usually gets over it i think and have found out. i think it is just in peoples minds that the guy has to ask, which isnt really the best idea but thats what people think, and lots of girls are scard to ask too. but i think they should all try it, i feel bad for you guys sometimes it isnt that easy!
2006-11-27 21:30:03 · answer #7 · answered by Amers 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most of the time it is the boy wo asks out the girl for some reasons guys are sapose to make the frist move for evrything
2006-11-27 21:29:46 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
A woman??? You wouldn't know what to do with a woman. You probably have all the teenage girls fooled at your high school but any woman would see right through you. Go check your lunch box....i think the Indian Freak pissed in it
2006-11-27 21:57:26 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree. Some us liberated girls do ask guys out from time to time!
2006-11-27 21:30:06 · answer #10 · answered by venus13 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋