Ok so I went into a chinese restaurant and sat down at the table, and when I was about to order this old lady came and said "Japanese! Japanese!" And my mom and dad was sitting at the other table across from me and they had to tell her I was black, but my eyes are asian from my moms side. She was really intrigued by me for some reason. She even sat down at my table and said I could order anything free! For a guy that never won anything in his life I was shocked! She said she owned the restaurant so I ate like crazy while my parents had to pay. LOL But while I was eating she interrigated me, it was a trap. She found out that I liked asian women and she told me to marry chinese women! She said things like chinese women are strong beautiful nice ect. And she kept on about how I would have very beautiful kids if I married a chinese women. She said they would be cute to see a black japanese and chinese kids. I don't know if she was just being nice and have a convo or was she serious?
2006-11-27 13:10:58 · 17 answers · asked by Wandering Sage 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Mom and Dad weren't offended at all. But they found it kinda odd though......
2006-11-27 13:11:54 · update #1
She was dead serious.
2006-11-27 13:18:09 · update #2
this lady seemed completely fascinated by your looks - it does seem like a wonderful combination.
Other than that - people are just people and there is no guarantee that you will like a particular race of persons more than another. The only think that I can ever believe will work is to be yourself no matter who you meet and try to get to know a person before going to far with the physical part of the relationship. But sounds like you know that because you are waiting and taking the time to think about what the lady said.
I don't think it matters if she was serious or not, only what you believe.
Hope you enjoyed your meal! But it just proves once again what I have always told my children - there is no such thing as a free lunch. God Bless!
2006-11-27 13:21:58 · answer #1 · answered by Goodmomma1 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-04 11:02:23 · answer #2 · answered by bungay 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Enjoy it! When your almost 40 like me, you will want people to hit on you, or try to fix you up..LOL!
No, seriously she probably was for real, but went about it in a weird way..
Im sure she thought you were extremly attractive, older woman can look at younger men and think they are cute..ya know?
She was probably trying to fix you up with a relative...
Just be happy...You caught someones eye..
Like i said years from now...you will look back and love it!
I know it was weird, but there are weird pple out there, that go about things in strange ways. Im sure she meant well.
2006-11-27 13:22:44 · answer #3 · answered by ~Annette~ 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Bizarre!Schizoid!Nutz! What else can I say. Pay no attention. Maybe she had a daughter in the back she wanted you to marry. Who knows. Sounds freakish to me and I wouldn't give her another thought if I were you, honey. But you sound cute as a bug's ear.
2006-11-27 13:17:38 · answer #4 · answered by outdone 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
she prolly likes black men, and whats better than a black man than a mix with asian. she was most likely flirting with u but tryin not to come out and say it since ur parents were right there
2006-11-30 15:26:35 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You were probably pretty exotic to her and she was interested in learning more. In Japan people with exotic yet asian features are very popular, they stand out from the crowd.
2006-11-27 13:14:15 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
well, it does seem a bit odd, but I think she may really have been trying to give you some advice
2006-11-27 13:13:54 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
maybe she like you lol
but seriously thats some good advice personally thinking
2006-11-27 13:13:30 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Japanese Japanese! ha...LOL...that's funny
2006-11-27 13:42:48 · answer #9 · answered by L 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
my source tells me that shes crazy but i have heard of ppl before doing that
2006-11-27 13:18:03 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋