My friend bumped in to a guy in the hall today at school and fell in love with him.She loved his eyes. He's my neighbor but she don't know. I used to like him but I don't ne more. He still likes me. Should I tell her all this or let her find out on her own?? Even after she walked away he gave me a hug. We are still friendly. Should I tell him she likes him or let her find out for herself??
I get all the guys while she doesn't. I want her to win his heart. How can I help???
2006-11-27 13:07:15 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
How can I make him stop liking me and like her??
Is it mean of me to have said that I wouldn't go out with him, but would with his friend when he asked me out??
2006-11-27 13:10:57 · update #1
If you have absolutely no feelings (beyond friendship) for him, you could try to set them up on a date.
2006-11-27 13:11:17 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think that you should keep that info away from your friend. She needs to know how things are before she sees him hugging you sometime.
It is not a big deal that he is your neighbor. Just say something like: "hey you know that guy you bumped into, he's my neighbor and we know each other!" its a great thing. Tell her you will introduce them to each other.
When you do, it would be nice to tell him some interesting things about her, such as... she likes the same band that you do ...she's on the newspaper staff... she has been a great friend to me....
Then tell her something about him that she might have in common with him. This will give them somethings to start talking about with each other.
You want to show her that you are on her side. I would hang back (verbally) once they start talking to each other. Let them talk and give them the freedom to include you. What I mean is don't dominate and feel like it is up to you to keep things going. Just stand there and smile. Don't give him any secret looks. She should be your first focus, you want her to feel special and shine.
2006-11-27 21:43:28 · answer #2 · answered by Tarpaulin 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all you cant make anyone like or dislike anybody, but if you really want to help her be honest with her, and invite her to your house to hang out with the guy next maybe they will hit it off, i wouldn't tell him she likes him unless she wants you too.
2006-11-27 21:15:27 · answer #3 · answered by c_sev 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would stay out of it and let her take care of it. If she asks for your help, then give it. But just stay out of it for now.
2006-11-27 21:09:39 · answer #4 · answered by lyona22 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Come on now. Whoooosah.Just let things take it's course.If you get involved and things do not work out.Who is your girlfriend going to blame ?
2006-11-27 21:12:24 · answer #5 · answered by jozzi boy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay out of it
2006-11-27 21:11:23 · answer #6 · answered by flushing06 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stay out the situtation seems tricky i would just stay out of it
2006-11-27 21:11:46 · answer #7 · answered by kimgurl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
then back off ...i dont think she needs your help as much as you think!
2006-11-27 21:10:46 · answer #8 · answered by connie sue 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋