I'm attracted to my friend's younger cousin. It didn't happen out of nowhere either, it's been quite awhile. I'm waiting until we get older and he gets more mature to actually try and pursue a relationship because I think now is too soon. He's four years younger than me. I'm a junior in college and he's only a junior in highschool! The question is when can we date and it not be considered strange?
2006-11-27 13:02:15 · 16 answers · asked by Lancan123 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I sure hope it is not strange, because my wife is 15 years older than I am.
At his young age you may have to wait until after he graduates from High School, but it might be ok before that. You just have to make sure that he is mature enough to match your level of maturity. If he acts mature for his age, you will be able to date freely.
Take care,
Troy
2006-11-27 13:14:49 · answer #1 · answered by tiuliucci 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's nothing strange about wanting to date a younger man, although you do have a good plan in mind. Wait until you both are a few years older, specifically him.
2006-11-27 21:08:45 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think people will think it is strange if you date him now, even if you don't break the law and have sex with each other.
When he's 18 it will at least be legal to have sex, but people will still think it is strange that you "waited" for him. Also, they probably won't believe that you didn't have sex in the interim.
Maybe you should stop worrying about what other people think?
2006-11-27 21:20:06 · answer #3 · answered by Girl Machine 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
make sure it is within the law ,you can get in a heap of trouble if his parents object. I for one would not be upset if my son was dating an older girl.Times are changing and society is much more permissive now. Good luck
2006-11-27 21:09:32 · answer #4 · answered by Shark 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i like younger guys but thats cuz al the guys in my grade r d!ck$ so r the older guys so i go for a little bit young but i try to stay older or same age
2006-11-27 21:06:01 · answer #5 · answered by natrual flirt 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
um, he's still only a boy yet my dear. At least wait till he goes to college? or 20 maybe? he just needs to mature!!!!!!!!
2006-11-27 21:06:10 · answer #6 · answered by lyona22 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
When he's 18. Until then hang on just a little longer. Age really doesn't matter but the law does say funny stuff about it until he's an adult.
2006-11-27 21:05:22 · answer #7 · answered by tofu 5 · 0⤊ 3⤋
when he turns 18
2006-11-27 21:13:32 · answer #8 · answered by Julia 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That four years is a big leap.
You might want to wait till he's
LEGAL.....not to mention.... MATURE
2006-11-27 21:06:57 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Wait unti he's 18. Then you might realize, " Geez, what a goofball!"
2006-11-27 21:09:35 · answer #10 · answered by the big sexy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋