I was just curious if anyone has faced a disappointment or trying time (concerning parenting, pregnancy, career/stay at home or anything else) in their lives they never expected to happen. How did you get through it? What was the most difficult thing thus far you have ever had to do?
This is not concerning me. As of right now my family and I are happy, healthy, and great--I'm just curious of other people's situations.
2006-11-27 12:59:55 · 10 answers · asked by .vato. 6 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Other - Pregnancy & Parenting
Life is not at all what I thought it would be. I have faced a lot of hardships in my life including unplanned pregnancy.... spousal drug/alcohol abuse....physical abuse..... unplanned death... and now the inability to have children. i dont say these things to whine... but to show i have had my fair share of hard times. The only thing I can say about how to get through them is just take them as they come. not to get overly religious.... but I really dont think God gives us more than we can handle. To say how to over come each of these obstacles would take pages and pages.... and the answer is NEVER the same for each person. It is just knowing that if you can try to deal with issues.... eventually this too shall pass. Years from now... when you are my age or older.... you will look back and think this little problem... that you thought was so huge was really not that bad at all to deal with. You may make some mistakes along the way... we all do.... but just learn from them.
As for the question of the most difficult thing I have ever had to do thus far... it was probably giving my son up for adoption. I am SO glad I did it now, because i have gone through things i would not have wanted a child to go through since that time.... but back then it was the most painful choice i have ever had to make. I know that he is with wonderful people though and that he is loved. And that is all that matters to me.
2006-11-27 13:10:18 · answer #1 · answered by TAZZLOVER8 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Although I would have to say I am sure this is not what I pictured for my self...I am overwhelmingly happy with how my life has turned out.
It has not always been easy, but I am a firm believer in "everything happens for a reason" so I am glad even my trials have made me who I am today. What does not kill you only makes you stronger.
With out some bad I would not have had my two beautiful children and met the most wonderful man in the world.
2006-11-27 21:06:35 · answer #2 · answered by Jessica F 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've never really known what to expect. As for a trying time, getting my self-esteem and happiness back was pretty tough. I used to feel really bad all the time but I finally realized I deserve better. So now I'm happy! take care=)
2006-11-27 21:03:31 · answer #3 · answered by 77684 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I belive that you have to have "bad" (disappointments, trying times, bad days) in order to really appreciate the good times, or we would never really now how they feel.
2006-11-27 21:05:22 · answer #4 · answered by Suzzie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Gosh, in everyones life there is something that is unplanned. Nobody's life will be planned and really go that way.
2006-11-27 21:06:03 · answer #5 · answered by shorty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no! i used to say ¨i won´t get married or have kids. i get married when i was 19, i have a daughter, but the surprise is that i wouldn´t be more happier than today
2006-11-27 21:33:21 · answer #6 · answered by yturnjsinkjfshkjfsd 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It's hard to constantly masturbate and keep a smile on your face.
2006-11-27 21:07:31 · answer #7 · answered by Chuck Dhue 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
i have a horrible life, not like i planned!
2006-11-27 21:57:35 · answer #8 · answered by Kat Kat 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
turned out okay
2006-11-27 21:02:03 · answer #9 · answered by 2"CUTE"2B30 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What fun would that be?
:)
2006-11-27 21:02:52 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋