would you consider dating a black girl? What types of things do you look for in a black girl. From my understanding there is generally one type of black girl guys(other than blacks) like to date. Does she have to have long hair, and "act white"? Im not ghetto as some might say, but i am definitly in touch with my culture. I would like to think that I could date any race, but lately I have been feeling like other races have something against black women. Of course this is a generalization, but for me I have not seen complete acceptance. What do you look for in a black girl? Would you date a black girl?
2006-11-27 12:49:47 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I would date a black girl. To be honest (and attempting not to be Micheal Richards) the majority of the black culture is very unappealing to me. However, I've known a handful of black people that I can get along with and hang out with. So if I found a compatible match then it wouldn't bother me.
2006-11-27 12:55:35 · answer #1 · answered by mnorth12 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I would have gladly dated a black girl, but the one girl I would have dated already had a boyfriend. I cannot say that there are particular characteristics about one type of black girl that are better than other black girls. I just know what I am attracted to and I have seen many different looking black girls that have what I like.
I do not think that there is as much of a cultural difference in our society as there used to be. I think people are accepting of black girls.
Take care,
Troy
2006-11-27 21:04:25 · answer #2 · answered by tiuliucci 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am white male and I think black women are the sexiest women around. I have dated two black women before. I find that dating black women is just like dating any other woman....its not about cultures or a clash of cultures but if personalities mesh well. I think alot of people would like to date other races.....but everyone is intimidated by what the other person might think or others might think. NO matter what always keep your options open.....you never know who you may fall in love with.
2006-11-27 20:55:29 · answer #3 · answered by drisco21 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I haven't dated one and I would simply because of all the social negativity that allways seems to surround the black and white issues.The difference in cultures are enough to make it hard to date but when you put the race issue in everyone becomes a critic.To many times black and white couples decide that it's their business who they date or marry and never think about anyone but them.Usually when this happens there is hardship within the two families and groups of friends.
2006-11-27 21:02:38 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have dated black women. I find them very sexy, beautiful, and often quite strong.
THe problems usually come up when that whole 'BIG ATTITUDE' thing comes out. Acting bossy, confrontational, trying to be in control all the time, in-your-face-attitude, can be a relationship killer....or at the very least unpleasant.
It has nothing to do with her being black, it is more how a woman was raised, and what her peer group thinks is the right way for a woman to act...
So: yes I would date her, but it has a strong chance of not working out if she has that sort of attitude.
2006-11-27 21:00:23 · answer #5 · answered by wavemage 2 · 4⤊ 0⤋
When you consider dating anyone race outside of yours. Make sure you are prepared for the long haul. There are so many cultures. White, Black, Hispanic, Asian, etc......Which ones are you well familiar with in order to Love someone completely without difficulty. If you are not ready then, stay with your own.
2006-11-27 20:59:47 · answer #6 · answered by Ucan2 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
of course and not because i am black i go to a middle school called Robert frost and it is a middle school of mix races i see many girls that look cute, pretty beautiful, and dope dead gouges and some r okay and of course some r below okay but what i am trying to say is depending on your area is people react and something could be wrong with your personalty so before u pull out the races card think about all the stops
2006-11-27 21:09:05 · answer #7 · answered by alex b 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Brown sugar how come you taste so good now? I like black women. I prefer longer hair on all women. It doesn't matter how you act as long as you show class. In all girls I look for confident, graceful personalities and killer looks. Absolutely I would date a black woman.
2006-11-27 21:00:46 · answer #8 · answered by BluLizard 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
To be honest it shouldnt matter about the skin color at all because all black people and all white people dont act the same and come from the same place. You cant judge everyone by that one person.
2006-11-27 20:59:28 · answer #9 · answered by SweetLady 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
black women of all types are very desirable and you have not seen complete acceptance and you probably will never see that sweetie dont think its just against you but black have been embraced by mainstream america but by no way shape or form have we been completely accepted get your head out the clouds sweetie just be you and do you and you will be the classy graceful strong black woman as only you can be and someone will see that and say damn shawty got it goinz on........so just keep ya head up aint nothin wrong wit chu
2006-11-27 20:55:39 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋