Ok... his best friend (a girl) told me that he is gay... i've totally fallen for him... cant get ova it until i hear it from him. One prob... he duznt noe i noe....
2006-11-27 12:42:38 · 27 answers · asked by Louise N 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The friend and i are the only ones that know that he is what he is. The only chance i have with him is that he wants a family. He has to live a straight man's life because of that.
2006-11-27 13:18:39 · update #1
You'll need to remove yourself from him or find out for sure if he's gay.
2006-11-27 12:44:02 · answer #1 · answered by Voting Machine 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
well there's nothing wrong w/being inlove... no regards who ever the person is. the problem is if you would want something in return.... you could use your feeling as an inspiration, but not more than that. if he's gay, he's gay. nothing you can do or say will ever change that, if you pursued, it will just go in vain. unless you think you're strong enough for a one-sided love.
it will just be unreciprocated... so if i were you i'd just move on. but before you do so, there's no harm in telling him how you feel. he's gay... he's more accepting with unreciprocal feelings. theyve been through many rejections too.
then move on :-)
2006-11-27 20:52:07 · answer #2 · answered by enki 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
How could you have "totally fallen for him" if you don't even know if he's straight or gay? Sounds like you don't know him at all!
Geez! Get to know him a little better then ask him directly. Tell him that you heard he's gay, and you hope it isn't true because he's a great guy.
2006-11-27 20:46:52 · answer #3 · answered by lmcbuilder 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
When you find the time just go up and kindly ask him if he's gay. It's okay to be embarrassed, as most people would be. It could just be a rumor that somebody heard and passed on.
Or, his best friend (the girl) could've just told you that he was gay so you didn't get him. Don't be too mad with her if he says he's not, but just kindly say, "Next time tell me the truth."
I hope my advice was helpful to you. Please e-mail me with feedback!
2006-11-27 20:49:22 · answer #4 · answered by jtownmouse 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First you need to make sure he is gay. If she is his best friend maybe she has feelings for him and lied to you. Why don't you trying asking him to lunch or a movie? If you really like tell him. If he is gay or not interested he will tell you . Maybe just maybe he might like you to.
2006-11-27 20:51:35 · answer #5 · answered by wes41550 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Gay guys are the best...they actually give a crap abut their appearance and they're nice! I always fall for them. Well of course it's never going to work out, but you can always be friends!
2006-11-27 20:46:35 · answer #6 · answered by ღღღ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not go there girlfriend! I am speaking from experience...let him go because there will be nothing but heartbreak for you...even if a guy who prefers men has a bit of liking for women they will always prefer men and that can lead to feelings of inadequacy and leave you feeling unattractive and sad...no no no...friends yes the other no no no...
2006-11-27 20:46:20 · answer #7 · answered by tigerlily_catmom 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Does he know you can't spell either? That might be a turnoff whether he's gay or straight.
You're not in love with him if you hardly know him...and it's apparent you don't know him well or you'd know if he was or was not gay. You've got a crush on him.
So if you don't trust the chick that told you, why not flirt with him and see what happens? No positive response and he's either gay or disinterested...either one would mean time for you to move on.
2006-11-27 20:45:44 · answer #8 · answered by . 7 · 2⤊ 2⤋
Could this girl have just told you this to get you to back off because she wants him for herself? That was the first thing that came to my mind!
2006-11-27 20:45:12 · answer #9 · answered by blackjack 3 · 4⤊ 0⤋
dont get me wrong but the only way ti get him straight to do it with and he can get oral for a guy so that wouldnt work an he can get anal for a guy so that wouldn but he cant get pu ss y for a guy so that will work u do that or forget him
2006-11-27 20:51:29 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋