i am a 22 yr old male and i have done it a few times with prostitutes, say 5-6 times (that was abt 2 yrs ago), i intend to marry my girlfriend who is a rather traditional type of girl and wants to "wait". i hate to lie to her.... so can i still say that there is nothing to wait for, actually?
2006-11-27 12:23:32 · 37 answers · asked by abhi 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You are gross.
2006-11-27 12:25:18 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, you are not a virgin.But it is not a stigma not be virgin.
Just do the plain talking to your girl friend and be truthful and polite.She might accidentally have been lured into doing something like that in her childhood.Or she might even have had some other friend.It is not something that should dominate your relationship.If for some reason this become the issues to quarrel with her then leave her.Going to a prostitute does not mean you have lost all your human values.If a prostitute sells herself, then there would also be buyers around.Medically speaking of course you have to go through all the regimens to see that that you have not contaminated yourself with any bacteria or viruses.
2006-11-27 13:26:17 · answer #2 · answered by Ishan26 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Um, no you are not a virgin. Actually you need to go to your local health center and be checked for STD's. Do you know how many other sexual partners those 5-6 prostitutes have had before you?? So I would do that before you possibly infect the girl of your dreams. Also, you should not lie to her. Tell her straight up your past (It's your past, it can't be changed) and don't lie--because relationships are built on trust, not lies.
2006-11-27 12:29:42 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
lmao...dude if you have had sex before (even with a prostitute) you not a virgin. the end. and dont lie to your girlfriend...if you dont want to tell her you lost your virginity to a prostitute then say its personal and you would rather not mention who it is...she sould respect your privacy. and if she pulls that whole if you cant tell me then that means you cant trust me thing tell her that it was a long time ago and that you dont remember who it was because you were drunk and it was a stupid mistake. but dont tell her your a virgin chances are she will find out anyway and it will cause this huge dramma thing..and it might totally ruin your relationship. so its better to just be honest. good luck!!
2006-11-27 12:29:39 · answer #4 · answered by cool mann :]] 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
your not a virgin and your sick for sleeping with a prostitutes do you know how many STDS there are now you could have one right now have you been checked. I cant believe you asking if you are still a virgin! you know you're not stop being stupid. How would you feel if you girl slept with a male prostitutes and she said that didn't count because it was only prostitutes do you hear how stupid that sounds!?
2006-11-27 12:30:09 · answer #5 · answered by kim806 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
U are a humanity killer. People who visit prostitutes are the weirdest and worst people in this world. U r not in anyway a virgin. Get a life and tell the girl what you are and what you have been.
2006-11-28 13:35:45 · answer #6 · answered by desi_gyaan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok not to b mean but if youve done it with prostitutes then that means you really must have wanted to do something.... and tell your girlfriend dont lie... i would hate that girls allways find out... and no your not a virgin.
2006-11-27 12:30:13 · answer #7 · answered by Sk8erlvrprep 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to be honest and open with your girlfriend, soon to be wife.
It's not fair to her for you to have sex with her, and possibly infect her with some unknown disease that you might be carrying around as the result of your having sex with women who have sex with every guy in town!
I would confess to her, and then go get tested for std's.
Your marriage could suffer later if you're not open and honest with her now.
2006-11-27 15:42:26 · answer #8 · answered by MAC4Me 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Geez you are one sick man.....how can you sleep around with prostitutes....dont you have any idea that you might catch some sexually transmitted disease and pass it onto your future wife??? You are a total jerk...I wish I knew who your gf was...I'd go and tell her.....what a you sick man u are....oh and you aren't a virgin....you are a sicko.
2006-11-27 13:07:54 · answer #9 · answered by ♥♥♥GODDESS♥♥♥ 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You have lost your virginity physically but maybe you can say that you haven't emotionally because you haven't had sex with someone you trully love.
2006-11-27 12:25:40 · answer #10 · answered by jtgot1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude u are definitely not a virgn omg that is gross u need to go to a health clinic and get checked out
2006-11-28 10:24:46 · answer #11 · answered by hot_kokoa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋