I want to move away and go to a photography school in california, but then i would have to leave away from all my friends and my boyfriend. im not sure if our relationship would last if i move away. My dream is to be a photographer but also to be with him.... what do i choose? the school or the guy?
2006-11-27 12:12:28 · 11 answers · asked by megan_mcha 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
School
If the guy loves you he will understand and try to either go with you, visit or otherwise make it work
I say school because you have to look at your future, not the present. School is very important.
Good luck
2006-11-27 12:15:17 · answer #1 · answered by Karce 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Go chase you dream if you guys are really in love you relationship can last through anything. Sounds like you have a great dream don't let a man stand in the way. O may be he can move down there and get a job while you attend school. Hope this helped you out.
2006-11-27 20:16:52 · answer #2 · answered by kim806 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say that if you are able to follow your dreams..go for it..Guys come and go like the waves of the ocean. but to make YOUR dreams come true, you need to realize that you could make new friends in Cali., and possibly a new boyfriend. I gave up my dreams because i got pregnant and the guy walked away. I would never give up my son, but if i had the choice i would've gone back to school if i was given the opportunity. Besides, California is a very beautiful state with many, many friendly people. you need to choose for yourself, but take it from someone who had to give up her dreams...
2006-11-27 20:18:09 · answer #3 · answered by buterflybeader 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why can't you have both??? Is this the only photograpy school you can go to. There must be more than just this one. What does your boyfriend think??? Why can't he go to school in the same area. Why can't you visit each once a month while you're gone. If you really care about him then it shouldn't be a problem. I would choose my career at such an early age....
2006-11-27 20:16:56 · answer #4 · answered by danny_austin4 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he doesn't love u enough to allow you time to get an education, loose him. You can't expect things to be easy, if you want longevity, work through the obstacles together. It will only make your relationship stronger
2006-11-27 20:17:37 · answer #5 · answered by Valerie1987 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
education is important these days.. every woman needs to prepare for a career and to be independant.
long distance relationships are tough, but if it's meant to be, it will survive..
if you turn down school just for the relationship, what happens if you end up breaking up?
2006-11-27 20:15:34 · answer #6 · answered by Jeff 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Choose school... see if he will go with you. If not, you will find someone else in your new town. When you are young, there will be lots of men in your life. He is not the last one.
2006-11-27 20:19:40 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
love 4 sure.
you are not sure if your photography career will last. You should stay with your family. they will always last. maybe try a school closer to you. then you can decide if it is really wha you want to do.
2006-11-27 20:16:14 · answer #8 · answered by cutiepie_shay8 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you'll always have photography to fall back on. there are other fish in the sea
2006-11-27 20:15:19 · answer #9 · answered by MsJ 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Guys come and go, get your education first.
2006-11-27 20:14:45 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋