i am 13 and still living with my mom.i am ready for christmas and i am really exited but every year she gets all weird and she is all like noooooo it isnt christmas you cant put up any of that christmas crap. she even said that she hated christmas! i am in the christmas spirit and i would like to celebrate my favourite holiday with my favorite person in the world. my mom. but she pushes it away from her and i really dont know why!! she even says maybe this year we dont need a tree we can keep it on the front porch!! it scares the heck out off me cause i looooooove christmas. well i am basicly repeating myself here but really how can i get the christmas spirit into her. and by the way. talking to her does not work she just chuckels and says ya i am thew grinch that stole christmas bahumbug!! omg@!! ok please tell me what to do. thanks
2006-11-27 12:07:07 · 7 answers · asked by Meonater 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Kid, your mom has some issues with Christmas that are almost certainly over your head. I'd ask her what happened to her that makes her so angry about it.
Did she and your Dad separate near Christmas or something?
If she tells you she has bad memories about Christmas, tell her you want to make some good memories together, not more bad ones.
Have a great Holiday, hope this helps!
2006-11-27 12:12:48 · answer #1 · answered by lmcbuilder 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your mom has a very bad memory , something happened to her to make her hate Christmas. Someday she'll tell you but not now. Tell her you want to volunteer at a food pantry or a soup kitchen for Christmas and help some people who are less fortunate than you. Ask her if she'll come and help too. That should put the spirit in anyone. "Giving" doesn't just mean a gift. Sometimes the best gift is the gift of yourself. Merry Christmas, my dear.
2006-11-27 12:11:33 · answer #2 · answered by blondee 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Talk to her. Maybe something bad happened to her around xmas time a long time ago. How long has it been this way?
Personally, I have a hard time w/ the xmas holiday season, because my died 2 days after xmas and he hadn't even opened all his gifts. Mind you that was nearly 20 years ago and its still a bit hard. I do love the holiday, but I could see how if something bad happened to someone around the holidays that they might not like it. Just try talking to her and just keep an open ear. Good luck and Merry Christmas, hun!
2006-11-27 12:14:22 · answer #3 · answered by L♥G 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The Grinch required a darker factor. Carrey can pull that off, Williams particularly would be unable to. are not getting me incorrect, i'm a large time Robin Williams fan, it quite is in basic terms that he isn't convincing while attempting to place across a darker edge. Jim Carrey is.
2016-12-13 15:27:16 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just surprise her with something great! Do it you self put up the Christmas decorations don't let her lift a finger. Try to find out exactly why she doesn't like Christmas. Become 007 get to now you mom sounds like you really love her. Hope this helped you out!
2006-11-27 12:13:34 · answer #5 · answered by kim806 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You believe her?
You don't need your mom to have a Holiday spirit to celebrate the holidays.
If you love it so much, you'd know how to celebrate it by yourself. Maybe her seeing how much fun you're having will change her mind. Give it a shot, girlie!!
2006-11-27 12:11:00 · answer #6 · answered by Dollykins 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your moms hella mean just make it christmas in your room
2006-11-27 12:09:40 · answer #7 · answered by symone 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋