I really think I am totally head over heels with three women right now, I didn't plan this it just happened . I was dumped , I hooked up with a new girl , then ran into an old girlfriend and then BAM my ex fiancee comes back and now I cant decide between the three .
2006-11-27 12:03:58 · 20 answers · asked by Ruben 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I am hard-pressed to believe you are "truly in love" with these 3 women. I think you like the attention but I don't think I would call it love... Love, true love, is not a feeling that comes that easily, not a feeling that you pass out to a new girl, an old gf... when you love someone you love them and only them.
2006-11-27 12:07:26 · answer #1 · answered by girlysledgirl 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Yes it's possible, but you have to make a choice. Unless these three women are willing to share. The ex fiancee is an ex for a reason. Did you call it off or did she???? The old girlfriend is from the past also and who dumped who???? The new one sounds fresh and exciting and you have a new clean track record with her. I would go with the new one and let the other one's wait on you. If things don't work out with the new girl then go to plan B, if that doesn't work, then go to plan C. Either way you have options right now and that's the way your whole life should be. It should be your choice........You'll love life and enjoy it even more when you have options....Good Luck!!!!!
2006-11-27 20:11:27 · answer #2 · answered by danny_austin4 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. You are not truly in love with any of them...as far as I can tell from what you have written.
2. The new girl...is the new girl, and because it is new, you are infatuated with her....call it a crush. It COULD become something more, but it is too new to know at this point.
3. An old girlfriend and you have a shared history...and perhaps unresolved feelings. Nothing more, nothing less. It did not work the first time, and probably won't this time.
4. Your ex-fiancee: pretty much the same as "old girlfriend" but with more recent history and more recent unresolved issues. Probably you still have strong feelings for her, but again, you broke up for a reason.
Sorry to break it to you bud, but no there is no true love there for any of them. If it were true love, you would only be focusing on one girl....not all three.
2006-11-27 20:09:48 · answer #3 · answered by littleflower_57 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It is possible to love more than one person at the same time. It is wonderful to find the perfect person for yourself....but finding them at the same time can always be a burden in your mind. You should think about the both of them and think about the different qualities of each and determine which one you like best. You can be with both of them at the same time but that would be stupid because on or the other owuld find out and you'll lose both of them so please don't do THAT.
2006-11-27 20:08:28 · answer #4 · answered by aquarius_utada1000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is impossible to truly in love with more than one woman at the same time because let say, while playing with the first woman, the second woman calls you, what you do u gonna do? and certainly the third woman calls you while hooking up with the first and second woman. How do u think?
2006-11-27 20:07:23 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
its not love if its not the ONE and ONLY! when you 'love' more than one person at the same time, it means you dont like either enough and you are not devoted. give the new girl a chance and forget the ex fiancee and old girlfriend. you need to look ahead and forget about the past.
2006-11-27 20:11:58 · answer #6 · answered by lorivs89 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
HEy guy it's called lust not love especially with 3 women. You need to realize that, and not think it's true love because true love is for just one woman not 3. SO the answer is nope.
2006-11-27 20:19:13 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
hey you know what the say whats go,s around come around so you do what you have to . ps.let one find out and its over b/c women dont like to be palyed with like toys so what you say you love all three
2006-11-27 20:15:19 · answer #8 · answered by Felicia C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OF COURSE!! That's the beauty of love! And the tragedy of it too. "Destiny" has simply tangled the threads right now...no matter what u do someone is going to get hurt : (
2006-11-27 20:13:07 · answer #9 · answered by Mee-OW =^..^= 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe----------but if you can have to love three of us----does that mean we can also love three guys as well?-----and what if the number is more? say 5? or a whole soccer team? LOL
2006-11-27 20:10:59 · answer #10 · answered by EZMZ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋