2006-11-27 11:54:58 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
compatibility
mutual respect
trust
agreement on important issues such as how to raise children
maybe religious compatibility
ability to compromise
those are a few Im sure theres more.
2006-11-27 11:58:33 · answer #1 · answered by Dovahkiin 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you can't talke to her about what she wants, how can the folks at Y/A help you? What other reasons does she want? It sounds like someone isn't ready to be married. And what kind of reason is beauty? Whew! This whole question is too crazy for me!
2006-11-27 19:58:21 · answer #2 · answered by Momma Jo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have to convince her to marry you...then find someone who's worth your time. No matter how hard you try to fool yourself into believing she's the one-she's not. You know that in your heart and are probably just trying to make it work because you're lonely or for some other reason.
She sounds like someone that will tear your heart out if she's playing you that way. I dated a girl for two years who said we weren't dating-we went out together, stayed with one another overnight, kissed, shared meals, went to movies, talked a lot, had fun etc. She never wanted to call us a couple-
I met a different woman who was REALLY interested in me and we had instant chemistry-when I went to go out with her the other woman all of a sudden wanted to imagine us as a couple even though she avoided it for so long-trust me you don't want to have to hunt down reasons for a relationship to work-there are probably other red flags if you just look around.
There is someone who will flip out for you as much as you flip out for them-THAT's who you wait for-kick this loser to the curb man-save yourself long term pain by going through the short term pain of releasing her.
Dwight
Dwight
2006-11-27 20:02:20 · answer #3 · answered by revmccormick 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What better reason is there then love? Unless she's waiting to hear that you want to start a family, have you discussed the issue of children?
2006-11-27 19:58:37 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
To raise a family together?
Alternatively, you could tell her that you are nothing without her, and you need to know that she won't ever leave you because you would be a hollow shell of a man if she wasn't there to look after you and make sure you don't do stupid things.
2006-11-27 19:56:42 · answer #5 · answered by mikah_smiles 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
as i see it, your gf wants a very responsible man and has stable income. responsible and has stable job are the good combination
without this two.,love beauty intelligence are only basic charactiristics, the major are responsible and good job. and before i forgot, the respect will always be there.
2006-11-27 20:06:35 · answer #6 · answered by Salvacionf 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is number one- and wanting to spend the rest of your life w someone- and because you complement each other and want the best for them- caring- and is responsible, mature, faithful and has character and integrity-D
2006-11-27 19:58:20 · answer #7 · answered by Debby B 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her she is the only one you can picture spending your life with. She is the one you want to make a family with. The one you want to grow old with. That she completes you
2006-11-27 20:02:13 · answer #8 · answered by Valerie1987 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like your girlfriend is just not ready for marriage.
2006-11-27 19:59:27 · answer #9 · answered by Kimberly H 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
only other reason would be if she got in the FAMILY way. then you are in rather you are ready or not!!
2006-11-27 19:57:38 · answer #10 · answered by Tired Old Man 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋