i want to tell my bestfriend that i am having sex with my boyfriend but telling her would be harder than telling my own mother. we always told each other that we were both going to wait untill we got married but that obviusly didnt happen with me. how should i tell her without her being disapointed in me? we are like sisters.
2006-11-27 11:30:35 · 7 answers · asked by lalala 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
tell her honestly that you had sex with your boyfriend and that you still honour her cautious approach to sex. explain to her briefly why you did it, for love, because you were curious, it was 'the moment' or anything valid. tell her you have no regrets and treasure the experience and hope she will accept you for what you did...ask her to forgive you for failing to keep the promise and tell her because you value your friendship, thats why you told her the TRUTH, and you dont want to keep secrets from each other.
good luck and just be sincere! she might be disappointed, but she loves you, and that means she'll be there for you especially in situations like this:)
2006-11-27 11:43:14 · answer #1 · answered by lorivs89 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just go up to her and say you need to talk to her. Then, when you are alone, you tell her what happened. Tell her that you are sorry, but it just happened. If I were you, I would not do it again until she accepts the fact and you know how she feels. In fact, I would wait until I was married, because it is a lot safer. Still, good luck.
2006-11-27 11:34:27 · answer #2 · answered by Bri 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go up and tell her. She may be disappointed at first but she should get over it with time. If you were to get pregnant that might change the subject a bit but she should support you like a true friend.
2006-11-27 11:53:26 · answer #3 · answered by madlion 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This can be really awkward, this issue broke up my group of friends my senior year, because two of us were having sex, and the other three were really against it...I think first you need to think about how judgemental your friend is, does she just not want to, or does she really look down on people who do...good luck :)
2006-11-27 11:36:43 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah if she is a real pal she wont care about it. I advise come on its your existence and who's she to assert your not aloud to have sex in simple terms becuase she's adversarial to it. what kind of pal is that, so certain i imagine you ought to tell her.
2016-11-27 02:39:52 · answer #5 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sweetie don't be disappointed,cuz maybe da same have happened to her so just go ahead n talk to her.
2006-11-27 11:36:37 · answer #6 · answered by diana b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her. She's your best friend for a reason...
2006-11-27 11:36:32 · answer #7 · answered by bks 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋