2006-11-27 11:29:08 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You need to break up. Its never going to be the way it was. There is no trust anymore, and she will always wonder in the back of her mind if your lying, if your cheating again, or if she can believe anything u tell her. Its hard to trust a person who betrayed you when they were supposed to love u. I dont think theres anything you can do to fix it except break up and move on. And honestly .... how can u be mad, there are reactions for every reaction. Did u really think she was going to be able to forgive u and forget... please.... no. Nobody every forgives and forgets for a cheater. They can forgive... but they can never forget!
2006-11-27 11:47:47 · answer #1 · answered by Jennifer Lopez 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude u messed up, not once, but a few times. You are lucky she is still with your @$$.
You did the crime, now do the time. You can’t do something like that and expect everything to go back to normal. She doesn’t trust you anymore, but she is with you so that tells you she is willing to try to trust you again.
You can’t just go on with life as usual. You are going to hear some b i t c h i n g for awhile. You are lucky you didn’t get an @$$ whoopin.
If it was me, you’d be gone. Maybe she needs a friend like me to set her strait, and tell her she is better than a boyfriend who can’t keep his d i c k in his pants.
Not only is this betrayal, but it is also potentially life threatening. Regardless of whether you used a condom or not, there are so many diseases out there. Some you can cure, yah, but others you are stuck with for life. And things like genital herpes and genital warts can be contracted even with a condom on.
If you ever feel the need to be with someone else again, at least let her know. If you get a disease, then you deserve it, but she doesn’t.
I hope she dumps you. Once a cheater, always a cheater!!!
2006-11-27 11:52:45 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why did u cheat on your girl, maybe you can talk and tell her why you cheated and maybe resolve it together. Or this could just be the start of a something very nasty in your relationship, that she will never get over in which case it is better to get out of this relationship
2006-11-27 11:32:39 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it shouldnt be about what you should do, but more about what she should do your girlfriend has low self etseem b/c to stick around someone who has cheated and is not gonna stop cheating anytime soon....it can't be nothing but low self esteem she don't think she can do no better...so i tell you what since you feel the need to cheat why don't you just let her go b/c that's what you wanted to hear anyway....you don't want this relationship and you know it....your just trying to find ways to ease your way up out of this , you thought by cheating on her she'd move on from you, but since she's holding on and won't let go it's frustrating the hell out of you.... so just do yourself a big favor and BREAK IT OFF!!!!
2006-11-27 11:49:54 · answer #4 · answered by tanya m 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let her know that you understand where she's coming from.
Get on your knees and tell her how much you care
about how you have hurt her.
She really needs to know that you get it.
It's not about the sex, it's about low self esteem.
Maybe the two of you can get counseling together.
Your relationship will soon be over if you just sit there.
Good Luck, you have really screwed up this time.
If you can't fix this now , your doomed to do it again,
in your next relationship. Think about it.
2006-11-27 11:38:31 · answer #5 · answered by J B W 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU NEED ANEW GIRLFRIEND OR BETTER YET NONE AT ALL!!!! until you settle down. What goes around comes around. I'm 38 and believe me. Nothing you're doing now is even close to being original. Any advice she gets form anyone older than her will beat anything you do or say. I'll bet my last dollar that she wises up before you do, and then you won't have to worry about her because she will be gone.
2006-11-27 11:41:28 · answer #6 · answered by muscles 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My first question is.....why did you cheat?
If you want to be with other women, then you should have enough respect for your girlfriend to leave the committed relationship.
It is hard to mend a broken heart, especially after having been betrayed.
You have to help her with her trust issues if she is ever going to be able to move beyond it.
Otherwise, she should probably leave you and move on.
2006-11-27 11:32:59 · answer #7 · answered by ~Jen~ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The question here should be "What do you want in this relationship?" Do you want to be with her? If so, you have to rebuild that trust. You need to reassure by not just words, but by actions. She needs to know that she can trust you again. If not, let it go and move on. It will spare her heart in the end and your nerves!
2006-11-27 11:33:35 · answer #8 · answered by slimdiva1977 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Duh! You betrayed her trust....you've cheated on her a few times...how can you blame her for not trusting you and wanting to know what you are doing. She is worried you will cheat again. If you were my man...you'd be in the gutter by now. You are lucky she hasn't dumped you, you're a pig. If you can't take the mistrust...do something to earn her trust back or leave her.
2006-11-27 11:32:20 · answer #9 · answered by Jamie J 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would never get back with someone who has cheated once, let alone a few times! you have to ask yourself why you did this to her.
2006-11-27 11:33:55 · answer #10 · answered by M B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋