I'm divorced from a woman who was 15 years younger than me, but now i'm looking for even younger. I'm mentally healthy, but know this is not acceptable in todays society and feel guilty about it,what should i do. I can't ignore it, its who i am today.I know why I'm like this, I just don't know what to do about it.
2006-11-27 11:29:07 · 20 answers · asked by mac 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I am 23 and just broke up with someone who was 52 why do you want someone younger? i think its fine as long as both people are okay with it you can email me if you want allison_buchanan2003@yahoo.com
2006-11-27 11:31:53 · answer #1 · answered by allison b 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am 58 and I would not even think about dating someone under the age of 35, because I know that I could not keep up with someone of that age and no I am not dead yet, plus I have children older than that.
Why would you want to ruin a young lady's life at your age? I am not saying that you are old at the age of 60, but look at the other person's life.
Good Luck
2006-11-27 19:36:19 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well - you say you know this is not acceptable in today's society and feel guilty about it. It would look like you're out with your granddaughter. You don't say if these girls want to date YOU? I can't think of any girls that age who would want to be seen with someone so much older - unless you have a Visa or Mastercard that you are generous with. That's about all someone that age would care about--buying them stuff. If you want to feel young, why hang out with girls this age? They will just make you feel older & out of touch. Hang out with someone in their 70's, then you can be the younger man. Besides, you know the old song - 'older women.......' and it's true.
2006-11-27 21:18:47 · answer #3 · answered by Canuckgirl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, a 60 year old guy going after a girl 18-25 is perverted
2006-11-27 19:33:38 · answer #4 · answered by Joe 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its normal for males to look,but seriously,dont go there.old guys used to ask me out all the time when i worked at a coffee shop,and seriously,they were so laughed at by the employees and by me.no one wants to date someone the age of theuir grand-dad.look if u must,but dont seriously start trying to make dates.u will be pegged as a "pop"-"pathetic old pervert",which is what our manager used to call them.of course,i married a man only 2 yrs older than myself,which seems about right.i dont mean to depress u.everyone has feelings theyd rather not have sometimes,just look.otherwise,u will be open to ridicule,to the wrath of angry fathers and mothers who hear their daughter is receiving the unwanted attentions of someone much older.and,should one of these girls date u,is it because u promise her money,trips,presents?be honest with urself.if this happens,she'll be conning u-and u will become an object of pity to ur family and friends and an object of humor(behind ur back)to the girl and her friends-and probably her boyfriend,who would help her spend the "sugar daddy's " money!just behave.if u have other odd impulses,test for "small strokes' and occluded arteries-lack of oxygen flow can cause behavioural changes.(i am now a retired nurse.)also,the onset of altzheimers disease can lead to odd behaviours as well.good luck.dont embarass urself or ur family!
2006-11-27 19:40:50 · answer #5 · answered by Lyn K 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's a BIG difference between "wants to" and "has any chance of". You are trying to regain your youth by capturing someone else's. It's going to make you feel twice as old. You won't like her music or her friends. You'll think she's immature and can't make up her mind. You'll spend all your time criticising her and trying to get her to change. And she will change, boyfriends that is. You'll be out the door in no time flat.
2006-11-27 19:35:40 · answer #6 · answered by angry 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dear sir , you are old enough to be those girls grandfather. you should seek a good counselor and get help. do you watch alot of porno? if so you need to get away from this sort of thing. it can take your imagination to places you never thought you would go. date older women. there are good woman who are in their fifties and would make excellent companions. you are way to mature for these age women 18-25 years of age.they have not even grown up yet. they have not yet tasted of life. you on the other hand are in the winter of your life. do you go to church? there are good and descent women there.talk to a good pastor and seek help for this problem.if it were me i would feel like i was with my children and i dont want to do anything to hurt a young person.you said you feel guilty about this. well sir this is your conscience speaking to you not to do this.
2006-11-27 19:47:44 · answer #7 · answered by jbearbooboo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you like that? Unfortunately, your choices will be very limited if you limit yourself to that age group. Any girl who can get a guy her own age wouldn't bother with someone so much older.
2006-11-27 19:32:43 · answer #8 · answered by Happy2bme 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
buddy, dont look for a specific age group...look for someone you love, and care about. If you date someone younger you get fun nights out of, its not better than being in love with someone
Follow your heart
Good luck
2006-11-27 19:32:19 · answer #9 · answered by as 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think its normal that a older guy likes younger women look at hue
2006-11-27 19:31:29 · answer #10 · answered by girly_down_n_south 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋