To guys about a guy:?

Question

how can a girl tell when a guy likes them?

Answer 1

OK, I'm going to put a lot of time and thought into this post so I expect the best answer award, haha. The very first sign is if he looks at you. If you catch him looking at you that is almost a dead giveaway. Next, if he isn't too shy, he will lock eyes with you to signal his interest. That is the single most powerful thing I do initially show a girl my interest. Give him a smile and see if he returns it... good sign. However, if he looks away when you look back, he is probably just shy and intimidated by you, but you it will be obvious when you catch him looking more than once (this is no accident). Next, if he is smooth, he will probably play some games with you to try to challenge you and build anticipation, but if he is inexperienced and not good with women, his words will give it all away and he might directly tell you he likes you, or do the opposite and try to act disinterested, but it will be so exaggerated it should be obvious to you. Get him talking. Now if he is a little smoother, he won't give his intentions away easily, and you will know he likes you because he will tease you, maintain strong eye contact (perhaps with a sly grin), touch you in a friendly manner, and maybe use some sexual innuendo on you (saying things with a double meaning, the second meaning being sexual. For instance: when talking about his slice of pizza you tell him he got a big one, and then he might say: yeah I do have a big one... laugh haha). He doesn't give his interest in you away, but there are these hints (women are masters at this game of subtlety), so most likely if you like him too, the tension will build and he will continue to advance until you are dating. If he has experience, he will use mixed signals like this because we all know they are very effective and he knows you will not stop wondering about him. Anyway, I assume you wanted to know about a guy who knew what he was doing, because most other guys are so obvious it isn't even worth talking about much. Anyway hope this helps.

Answer 2

i'm a girl, but i do a lot of stuff to get this guy to like me. I have a crush on him right now, and I was really close with him last year but I only realized I liked him until now. I only have one class with him and I make as much effort to flirt and talk with him. The class is PE and he is very athletic and I work my butt off to be great at running and sports. I try and act like I love sports, which I do! After, I start a simple conversation with the word "hi". It really works. That lets him know that you are into him and that you care, because you were decent enough to start the conversation. When I pass him I say "hi" and stuff and I talk to him about thinks I know he'll enjoy and I enjoy too. That way, I know about that topic and can "impress" him with what I know! I look at him sometimes but I NEVER flirt. I never bat my eyelashes or twirl my hair, because my crush doesn't like those things. Another thing is to get to know them. If they like girls with heavy make-up and other things like that, then you can do that sort of stuff. Also, never go for looks. I used to like two guys, and one was really cute and the other was the one i like now. I went with the one i like now because he cared about me and understood me and all that stuff. So, don't rush into anything!!

Good luck on everything!!!

Answer 3

i ought to promote off him asap. If he likes yet another lady and she or he him, WHAT ARE YOU DOING??? true love would not play video games or have wandering eyes, this is committed and hard paintings. you ought to confirm this as a pink flag, a deal breaker, strike 3. Your youthful, i'm guessing, you ought to not also be pondering a intense relationship that is going to reason you lack of self belief. have exciting, do not develop into overly invested in this, WHAT? you may't flirt? move on, the writing is on the wall and it spells difficulty. Do your self a want and decrease the guy loose, even if that's destined to be, this is going to run this is route and he will be decrease back. yet why you ought to take him decrease back absolutely you may answer.

Answer 4

It's different with each guy. When I like a girl, I try to get her drunk. Not drunk to the point she passes out on a street corner in her own puke with her skirt over her head, but just enough to loosen up and say stuff she wouldn't normally say. So like inviting her to a party or a club or bar would be my first move. Why don't you try getting him drunk and see if he makes a move?

Answer 5

I might not be a guy but.....He might be avoiding u or just is a little shy or nervous around u.. He might want to hang out with his friends when he's around u cos he's nervous to be along around u...He might stare at u a lot and when u look back, he might look away embarrased.....GOOD LUCK!!

Answer 6

most of us are too shy to come up straight away , but keep your eye out for goofy strutty behavior ( a lot like a demented peacock)- especially in a group.
avoiding your gaze or overdoing a return gaze,
unusually shy or cocky behavior & nervousness - stammering
cheers:
paul :-}

Answer 7

when they smile or act weird around u. or like if their freinds always talk to u and like if they look at u in the hallway. have you friend walk with u in the hallway to see if he looks at u when he passes u. or in class. i hope my answer answered ur question.

Tori <3