I wrote: Crap I keep forgetting to hug you every time I see you. Can I give you a hug next time I see you?
she wrote: nooooooooooooooooo... u cant hug me
no!
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how do I reply to this message? do I ask her "wow, why not?" suggestions?
(this is a girl who is my friend, she knows I like her, but she's not my gf)
2006-11-27 11:05:55 · 20 answers · asked by G-Unit 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't tell this girl anything, just keep your hands to yourself, she has made it clear, that she does not want to hug!!!
2006-11-27 11:09:16 · answer #1 · answered by Kimberly H 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude that totally sounds like shes just joking. If your that worried about it, or it upsets you that much, just ask if shes serious or just kidding. If shes your friend she'll let you know. Now keep in mind, if shes the sarcastic or dry humor type, she may continue to kid about this for a little while. She may make jokes about you stinking or that she would never want to touch you. Things like that would hurt very bad if a person was serious, but I just cant believe shes serious unless shes a total *****. Play along with her. Text her back something like "Good I didn't really want to anyway" the best way to a girls heart is a good sense of humor and the famous 'little things'. Just be more confident.
2006-11-27 19:14:29 · answer #2 · answered by espactor 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I once had the exact have the same converstaion with a girl. I replied, "Alright then, so I see what you mean. No hug right (wink)"
Should make her tell you the truth if she's joking or not.
2006-11-27 19:10:52 · answer #3 · answered by Magnim Opus 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i kinda had the same prob with a guy......just ask her...maybe she was kidding....or maybe shes in a relationship with someone who minds ir hugs...who knows unless u ask her. Dont worry itll all work out. Also maybe shes afraid ull get too attached if u like her and she hugs you.
2006-11-27 19:09:23 · answer #4 · answered by as 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't mean to sound ignorant but first of all you shouldnt of said what you said at least not like that.. N e wayz you should jus be like... Why dont you want me to hug you?? or.. Why would it be so bad if i gave you a hug???
2006-11-27 19:10:33 · answer #5 · answered by Omega 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey, that is hard... Well she could just be joking wiht you, and you could just ask her why, or next time you see her just go up to her and hug her and see her reaction to that and if she doesn't really seem to like that then, maybe she ment it... Hope that helps....
2006-11-27 19:08:46 · answer #6 · answered by Need to know 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your first mistake was telling her everytime you walk by u 4get to hug her. tell her that lately somethings have been occuping your mind. you have no clue watz going on... tell her that ur just so tense but have no one that can comprehend or understand you. thiz will bring you closer and that way u get ur hug and u see if she likes u or not and she might fall for u if not already.
2006-11-27 19:09:51 · answer #7 · answered by Person 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok...i want to hug this girl too but she keep saying no...just let her know you'll always be there..you know.. be sad when shes about to leave and when shes sad ...tell her i love you...like you really feel it...be a gentleman...this girl ask me to stand when i was sitting and she hugged me...its really effective...just love her as much as you can and she will return it back..chill take it easy don't be too fast on her...girls don't like that...there will be a time that she will need you or she'll be the one who will come to you....be patient......peace and good luck.....
2006-11-27 19:13:54 · answer #8 · answered by nice guy 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If she's your friend then she's probably being sarcastic. Why don't you say "I'll hug you when you're not looking" or "I'll hug yoiu when you least expect it" or sumtin like that.
2006-11-27 19:09:17 · answer #9 · answered by Being Myself 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hug her anyway if shes your friend then she shouldn't mind
2006-11-27 19:09:00 · answer #10 · answered by Adrina Y 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋