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I think my man is cheating on me b/c I've gotten pictures of him and the other woman from his friends, but his friends don't like me they hate me. I tell him about it but he denies it and say they are old pictures and then he questions me about not trusting him. He denies that he's cheating and say that I'm the only gurl he loves and ever wants to be with he even proposed to me. I don't know what to do, should I believe him or not, cause if I don't and I leave him and it's not true then I will be making the worst mistake of my life, but if it is and he's not telling me then I deserve better.

What should I do??

2006-11-27 11:00:08 · 11 answers · asked by coonasscjn 1 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

11 answers

Some guys (and girls) cheat, it's a known fact. Some guys have one regular and one on the side. Is he disappearing a lot and giving you false alibies? There are signs, you need to be aware of them. Do not make excuses for a cheater, too many people do this and end up staying long after they should have left. Don't fall for the non-trusting accusation, sometimes it can be a ploy to get you on the defensive and not the offensive. If you are having to defend yourself, he buys time. That's called playing a person, and some are good at it.

2006-11-27 11:07:08 · answer #1 · answered by Mike H 4 · 0 0

What a convoluted mess this is. Honestly, if he is cheating, find out! If he's not then let it go. Playing "I got a picture" with his friends who hate you so much seems pretty stupid to me. How old are the pictures? How hard is it too tell how old the pictures are? Do you have mental block to figuring this out? Come on, get off it princess and look a little harder. If he's cheating get to the bottom of it, otherwise, wise up and be happy!

2006-11-27 11:06:14 · answer #2 · answered by Tippy's Mom 6 · 0 0

I think you should just leave it alone for now. You confronted him about this and he says there's no one but you so just leave it at that. You have no proof but some stupid pics that his stupid friends gave you (don't know why they gave it to you in the first place). Trust your instincts and not what others do or say. Hopefully he's telling you the truth, if not, it will definitely come out sooner or later. Just enjoy each other's company and don't look for something that isn't there because if you do, it will definitely ruin your relationship. Hope things work for the both of you:)

2006-11-27 11:38:11 · answer #3 · answered by albert 2 · 0 0

jealous type? so am i dont feel left out! ok well first of all are the pics recent? u usually can tell if they have a date on the back? if not check out his outfits hairstyle or anything to see if you would think its recent. are they doing anything deemed inappropriate in the pics???I hope everything goes well...but most men wouldnt cheat and spend money on a diamond ring these days

2006-11-27 11:13:36 · answer #4 · answered by samzprecious1 2 · 0 0

You go with what your gut tells you! If you honestly feel like he is cheating then he is. Women are pretty smart about these things...take alook at how he has been acting...does he stay out late? does he not come home on time? does he not take cell phone calls when your around? does he get mad and turn it into a huge fight when you ask him about other girls? Ask yourself some of these and if any are what hes doing get out and get out now!

2006-11-27 11:07:24 · answer #5 · answered by WENDY G 6 · 0 0

You poor thing, that must be so hard to know who to believe especially when they gave you photos & then he said they were old photos (which they might have been) Is he still friends with his friends??? If he is well I wouldn't trust him because he should have been so angry with them for hurting you like that that he would have pinged them off!!
but as someone else said just wait until you see for yourself because he may be not guilty & truly faithful to you

2006-11-27 11:25:55 · answer #6 · answered by ausblue 7 · 0 0

Well this is very hard. Its really up to you sweetie what do you feel?. What I think is that if his friends dont like you they might be giving you the wrong info, trust your man until you see it with your own us. Be aware and alert. Good luck

2006-11-27 11:04:40 · answer #7 · answered by kathernva 4 · 1 0

Sweetheart, if you have to question your trust for him, then maybe you dont need to be in a relationship with him at the moment. You seriously need to just talk with him, and think about things.

2006-11-27 11:04:54 · answer #8 · answered by fashiondivine01 2 · 0 0

If there is ever a doubt in your mind about your man then it's probably women's intuition kicking in. If you have the feeling he is cheating on you then he probably is and remember.......once a cheater always a cheater.

2006-11-27 11:04:17 · answer #9 · answered by rhythmoftheblues 2 · 1 0

ignore his friends they are jealous of you.... Good-luck

2006-11-27 11:03:07 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

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