So this guy really flirts with me and tells me he wants to b with me and he has a girlfriend.. and i tell him not to talk to me like the way he does becuz of the fact he does have a girlfriend. My best friend got mad at me because i let him talk to me like that? wen i don't she really doesnt even want me to b friends with him, but hes a genuine person. and i respect him as a friend... Whats the deal? its obvious he likes mee. and i like him too? but i do respect the fact he has a girlfriend! Help!
2006-11-27 10:38:05 · 7 answers · asked by Samantha Rae 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Let him decide. It's entirely up to him whether he wants to keep his current girlfriend or not. If you want to remain honest about it, just do exactly what you normally do until he makes his move; that way this other girl can't validly use the 'you stole him' argument on you.
2006-11-27 10:40:16 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Darling please, how can you say he's a genuine person and that you respect him when he's being so disingenuous and disrespectful to the one he's really supposed to be with in the first place. You've got to put a stop to this. As soon as he "conquers" you he'll be sweet-talking another gal he thinks he has to have. This guy might be hot, but he's a two-bit creep as well.
Respect yourself and think about if you were the other girl, the one he's supposed to be being faithful to now.
2006-11-27 18:51:32 · answer #2 · answered by soulguy85 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell the guy that flirts with you that you absolulty refuse to be the "other woman" and you just want to be friends. Have you considered the fact that maybe your best friend might like him too? it does happen. Just tell your best friend that you're only friends with him and that you refuse to be the other woman in the relationship. She has nothing to get mad at.
2006-11-27 18:44:16 · answer #3 · answered by smartmouth04 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do the right thing. Stay away until he severs the old relationship. If he's really into you, he'll ditch the other girl and focus only on you. If not, then it's not fair to you and not fair to the other girl -- everyone gets hurt -- and you're worth more than that! Good luck!
2006-11-27 18:43:01 · answer #4 · answered by septsecret 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys like that are trouble. They are always looking for a little extra, and then when you want more from them they tell you that you knew he had a girlfriend when you started.
2006-11-27 18:42:40 · answer #5 · answered by Elle76545 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you want to go out with him tell him you really like him and want to go out with him but that you're not going to do anything until he's single - tell him you've got more respect for yourself than to be the 'other woman'.
if you don't want to go out with him don't let him talk to you like that - it'll mess with your head (hence your question!!!!).
your best friends looking out for you.
if you do go out with him remember what he can be like when he's in a relationship.......
good luck xxx
2006-11-27 18:44:45 · answer #6 · answered by aria 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need a therapist...
2006-11-27 18:48:14 · answer #7 · answered by roobeng.indahouse 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋